He made sure he was seen ringless for the paparazzi. Payback for her school stunt

Anonymous wrote:How can she be moving forward with this multi-faceted project about their romance and accompanying PR if they have split?

It makes no sense.

That's probably one of the reasons why they switched to the tour to her greatest hits, so the new album won't be the whole focus

My take on Jlo is that being loved by a man like Ben affleck is validating to her. It was validating to her in her thirties, when she was up and coming, to be loved by a handsome a list movie star. He broke her heart and shattered her ego. He ended up being a lot more damaged that people realized at the time, but has come to obvious light since. When he came back, twenty years later, she made a foolish mistake going back to him and it blew up in her face, because he still has the same issues and so does she.

It’s funny her movie nods to astrology with a zodiac love council (wtf? No wonder Argo director Ben is running for the hills) because a backup dancer on Tiktok claimed she made everyone do a long all day audition with no pay then asked zodiac signs kicked out all backup dancers who were Virgos.

What a crazy woman. The worst celebrity encounters viral trend on Tiktok immediately trended her name months ago. People from different walks of life from dancers, flight attendants, doormen, boutique salesclerks, camera crew techies all said she was the absolute worst to work for or meet

I thought nobody could be more attention seeking, messy, catty, and arrogant than Madonna but J Lo definitely surpasses her.

Madonna leads a very private life and seems to be a very good mom.

He didn't do anything for her for Mother's Day , left their home several weeks ago, and has now been photographed without his wedding ring. He does seem done.

Poster above, her relentless compulsion to try to control the narrative and her need to do so is beyond. I don't think I'm the only one who believed she only
brought her child so they could see the show. I think was aware of negative pr secondary to how she handled A Rod breakup and effect on child so she wanted the photo op suggesting all is peaceful and mature. That's her latest image, the kids matter, they're blending families, they're more mature now, etc. Except she has to deal now with the messy reality that actually they may not have changed very much at all.

In the vanity fair article she said something like now that she was married she really had something to offer and could put the past (meaning her chaotic, "search for love" ie. Crazy relationship history) behind and move on. So like her documentary, it was deeply important that she control the narrative of her past. Here's the thing: She actually believes if she takes charge of it, she can change a lot of minds. (Not all she admitted) But obviously she cannot hear no, takes little guidance or counsel from even those close to her, really, and believes in her omnipotence to make anything happen. It's the dark side of determination, closer to arrogance.. And her past success fed that beast. Imagine being with someone like this? Where they ultimately always do what they want? She reminds me of Tom Cruise. And whoever is not on board....can get off. For Cruise, the cause is scientology. For her, it's her career and her fame.

Ben certainly read the Variety piece and realized how much of a chump he seemed and the ghost of Gigli /Bennifer backlash woke him up. He doesn’t want to risk his career standing or getting berated by Tiktok

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Anonymous wrote:I can't quite believe her trying to market their "great love" has imploded the marriage. Surely she will have to dump the project and pr now?

She'll need to shift to greatest hits anyway for her tour to have any chance of success.

I thought the tour was recently cancelled?

Nope, just a few shows. The tour is still happening.

Thanks for the Variety link. Bit surreal to read knowing BA has moved out.

Anonymous wrote:How can she be moving forward with this multi-faceted project about their romance and accompanying PR if they have split?

It makes no sense.

Agree it makes no sense. She’s going to look pathetic

How can she be moving forward with this multi-faceted project about their romance and accompanying PR if they have split?

It makes no sense.

^^^ but yes, she sucks re: her kids.

Anonymous wrote:I Can’t wait for the tell all.

She always weaponizes Emme’s emotional attachment to the kids after a breakup. “look what you’ve done to Emme”. She did this with A Rod as well.

Maybe she needs to examine why she makes men run away?

Not fair to cast her as THE problem. She may be a nightmare, but these men all sign on, at least for a while. And she has never been anyone but who she is, good and bad. I blame her for being a bad partner but I also blame men who think they're gonna make something different out of her and then are disappointed.