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Anonymous wrote:So many bean counters here who are unhappy about other people getting a so-called break while they “did everything right”. Cry me a river. You just want to screw everyone over because you’re bitter?
Maybe they had illnesses, disadvantages, dependents, or other circumstances that got in the way of paying the loans off. Maybe their parents didn’t help them out with cars or bills. Some people may have made out like bandits and others really needed it. Is it really worth all this solipsistic hand-wringing about what you did with your own loans? Can’t you see the broader policy implications of this?
+1 The biggest problem I see on this thread is that people don't see the benefit of supporting other people in society who are less well-off than they are. All they can see is that if someone gets something, they want it too, even if they don't have the documented need for it.
NP. I haven't read the whole thread and I could follow the whole student loan debt issue more closely. I 100% agree that too many generations of Americans were fed some version of the lie that if you pay big $ for college you'll be successful. But, please understand there are some (I just know about myself but I have to assume I'm not that unique), who got through school debt free on a combination of pell grants and work study, whose parents didn't help with cars or bills and in fact helped their parents. My parents' constant financial stress taught me to choose a college I could get through debt free, so they did give me that lesson. I went on to grad school and I repaid those loans ASAP through shared housing in school and when I graduated, NOT going out on weekends and when I did I spent very little. I didn't own a car until I got married (my husband owned a beater). We lived in some awful apartments that in hindsight were not healthy. We had kids AFTER the loans were repaid. I had the advantage of being healthy. While I agree that there is a lot of need for reform and in general agree that some amount of student loan forgiveness is probably a good idea, sentiments like the bolded are really irksome. Some of us without parental help still managed. That is all.