Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Blonde is easy. Sounds like losing the weight is just too hard for you? That's fine but you've answered your own question. You need to settle.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?
OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.
I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.
Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?
Its depressing.
Loosing weight is extremely painful, expensive and hard work. Either endless gym hours or a liposuction of literally everything from neck to butt. It requires local numbing for best results, takes at least two 4hr long surgeries. Terrible pain during and after surgery for a few days; recovery time 6 months after each (with no dating dorks); courage not to look at yourself in the mirror and trust your surgeon. Also $20k "budget". These are strong women who achieve perfect bodies, one way or another.
Been there and I think now looking back gym and diet is easier. So now I just don't eat sugars&junk and in generally don't eat after 7pm.
*losing