Anonymous
Post 06/08/2026 19:27     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Oh, an affair between staff is the least of the worries at this school. It seems as if the principal if threatened by the AP and is running him out. The way he is treated by her is truly shocking.

Well, shocking for anyone else besides her.

Anonymous
Post 06/08/2026 19:12     Subject: Oakridge Principal
After reading this thread I started to suspect my kiddo was in the class impacted by the affair. DC said the gym teacher is in there “all the time”. These are adults in a private consensual relationship, but when it impacts my child’s education I have a problem. Under no circumstances should a gym teacher be in a classroom on a consistent basis to the point where students are picking up on it.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2026 09:22     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Assuming we can’t say names on here lol? My understanding from this thread and from a friend of an Oakridge teacher is that the gym teacher was engaged, the homeroom teacher was not, but was well aware of his status.


I see the gym teacher every morning. Pretty sure he wears a ring and has kids—gross! And what grade is the homeroom teacher. upper or lower grade?😇

Agree with previous posters—-sounds like poor life choices not necessarily poor leadership in this case.



There is more than one male gym teacher. Based on earlier comments in this thread, I'm assuming it's not the one that is married with kids.


Noted! I didn’t believe it. This is a bad soap opera.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 20:48     Subject: Oakridge Principal
It is NOT the married PE teacher!!! as is stated several times, it was an engaged male PE teacher who does not wear a ring and an upper grade homeroom teacher. Only commenting to prevent a good person from being roped into/associated with this childish behavior.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 20:44     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Assuming we can’t say names on here lol? My understanding from this thread and from a friend of an Oakridge teacher is that the gym teacher was engaged, the homeroom teacher was not, but was well aware of his status.


I see the gym teacher every morning. Pretty sure he wears a ring and has kids—gross! And what grade is the homeroom teacher. upper or lower grade?😇

Agree with previous posters—-sounds like poor life choices not necessarily poor leadership in this case.



There is more than one male gym teacher. Based on earlier comments in this thread, I'm assuming it's not the one that is married with kids.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 20:30     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Anonymous wrote:Assuming we can’t say names on here lol? My understanding from this thread and from a friend of an Oakridge teacher is that the gym teacher was engaged, the homeroom teacher was not, but was well aware of his status.


I see the gym teacher every morning. Pretty sure he wears a ring and has kids—gross! And what grade is the homeroom teacher. upper or lower grade?😇

Agree with previous posters—-sounds like poor life choices not necessarily poor leadership in this case.

Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 18:32     Subject: Oakridge Principal
I know the PE teacher and don’t believe this!
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2026 13:04     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Assuming we can’t say names on here lol? My understanding from this thread and from a friend of an Oakridge teacher is that the gym teacher was engaged, the homeroom teacher was not, but was well aware of his status.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2026 10:05     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Anonymous wrote:The affair is not the principal’s fault. The fact that these people are carrying on and making something obvious to kids is very much a school leadership issue.


Was the coach the married one in this affair? And the KIDS knew? (Students)? How is that possible? I would say that’s a leadership issue if true, but color me skeptical that a bunch of 7 year olds can suss out an affair

Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 18:27     Subject: Oakridge Principal
The affair is not the principal’s fault. The fact that these people are carrying on and making something obvious to kids is very much a school leadership issue.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 18:18     Subject: Oakridge Principal
We’ve had three kids go to Oakridge and have been happy. Also helped out at the field games today. The PE coach had an affair with a teacher? Sad because have known him for years and like him. But how is that principal fault?
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 14:10     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Anonymous wrote:All of this has got to be so embarrassing to the district - not just the affair but the ongoing conditions. The general state of affairs, if you will. 😉


Well played.
Anonymous
Post 06/04/2026 21:30     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Scroll up. Sounds like a PE coach and a classroom teacher. One was engaged. And some ITT are saying it’s a reflection of poor leadership at the school? Hard to comment without more detailed knowledge, but I don’t see how that’s the case.
Anonymous
Post 06/04/2026 20:31     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:All of this has got to be so embarrassing to the district - not just the affair but the ongoing conditions. The general state of affairs, if you will. 😉


Cheating is fun and fulfilling for the cheater. Which is why it's unforgivable. How can a good person be happy knowing that their pursuit of happiness will cause pain, suffering, and permanent damage to the family.
Is recon possible or even advisable?
Statistically, it is highly improbable that cheaters can change, heal the betrayed, repair the relationship, and stay happy together. All of this is on the cheater. Most cheaters do not have the fortitude to see the relationship through, hence the cheating.
You are better off away from the snakepit.


Because he’s an idiot who likes to take advantage of women who let him. Any female who accepts knowing his behavior is a fool.

Does this man want a harem of females? Makes me wonder how many other fish (oops, mean females) he’s hooked. The guy thinks he’s all that and loves the attention.

Just walk away from guys like this. They are idiots looking for fools.


Who are the cheaters?
Anonymous
Post 06/04/2026 20:17     Subject: Oakridge Principal
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:All of this has got to be so embarrassing to the district - not just the affair but the ongoing conditions. The general state of affairs, if you will. 😉


Cheating is fun and fulfilling for the cheater. Which is why it's unforgivable. How can a good person be happy knowing that their pursuit of happiness will cause pain, suffering, and permanent damage to the family.
Is recon possible or even advisable?
Statistically, it is highly improbable that cheaters can change, heal the betrayed, repair the relationship, and stay happy together. All of this is on the cheater. Most cheaters do not have the fortitude to see the relationship through, hence the cheating.
You are better off away from the snakepit.


Because he’s an idiot who likes to take advantage of women who let him. Any female who accepts knowing his behavior is a fool.

Does this man want a harem of females? Makes me wonder how many other fish (oops, mean females) he’s hooked. The guy thinks he’s all that and loves the attention.

Just walk away from guys like this. They are idiots looking for fools.