Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The US Olympic Committee, MSU and USA Gymnastics were all complicit in the horrific assault of so many children. Thank goodness the entire USA board has resigned. Next step is completion of the criminal investigation. That may take some time. More people will get charged for their crimes.
I sure hope so. As a Michigan native, the role MSU played in this really angers me. So many chances to stop him- it’s not surprising to me that college-aged women were more likely to recognize his actions as abuse (vs. the younger girls) but their complaints were repeatedly ignored. A sham investigation in 2014 cleared him of wrongdoing. WTF!
I watched a few of the statements, but this one in particular brought me to tears- I really hope meaningful change happens. No one should have to go through this.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kMibEuDSIbo
Anonymous wrote:Little Girls in Pretty Boxes was a book on elite gymnastics culture that came out in the late 90s...I remember reading it. In some ways it was a warning about what could happen. Gymnastics culture, particularly after the Karolyis became so powerful, we always messed up, even compared to other youth sports at the elite level.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They need to support more athletes to ensure that they have enough talent going into the games. They have this strange way of supporting a few favorites and they depend on them so much that injuries are overlooked.
That's a good point.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The US Olympic Committee, MSU and USA Gymnastics were all complicit in the horrific assault of so many children. Thank goodness the entire USA board has resigned. Next step is completion of the criminal investigation. That may take some time. More people will get charged for their crimes.
I sure hope so. As a Michigan native, the role MSU played in this really angers me. So many chances to stop him- it’s not surprising to me that college-aged women were more likely to recognize his actions as abuse (vs. the younger girls) but their complaints were repeatedly ignored. A sham investigation in 2014 cleared him of wrongdoing. WTF!
I watched a few of the statements, but this one in particular brought me to tears- I really hope meaningful change happens. No one should have to go through this.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kMibEuDSIbo
Anonymous wrote:The US Olympic Committee, MSU and USA Gymnastics were all complicit in the horrific assault of so many children. Thank goodness the entire USA board has resigned. Next step is completion of the criminal investigation. That may take some time. More people will get charged for their crimes.
Anonymous wrote:They need to support more athletes to ensure that they have enough talent going into the games. They have this strange way of supporting a few favorites and they depend on them so much that injuries are overlooked.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok, pp.
But if a man stuck his fingers inside me, I would have told my parents as soon as I had a chance. Even if they couldn't make calls from camp (which should have been a red flag to parents---and certainly would have precluded me from sending my child there), they could have (and should have) told their parents at some point. If they did tell their parents and they ignored them, then their parents were complicit on some level.
I don't recall which girl it was (I think she was blonde), but she said she didn't realize she was victimized until she heard one of the others come forward. What does that mean? She didn't realize being fingered by a doctor was assault until
someone else came forward as an adult? That's odd.
You have no idea what you would have done as a child. You're looking at the situation through an adult lens. I watched 20/20 last night and one of the women said that pain and discomfort was part of gymnastics. There were a lot of things about it she didn't enjoy and she trusted her doctor and coaches. These girls were taught to suck it up, work through it and don't complain or there would be another girl happy to take your place.
My sister trained with Dominique Dawes and was actually better than she was, but my parents pulled her out of gymnastics once they realized the craziness of the system. They pushed the kids too hard and had no concern for their wellbeing. They forced them to push through pain and injuries. Any normal parent who loved their child wouldn't let them pursue it at that level.
The fact that these girls suffered injuries and were forced to push through is a red flag. What's the point? Olympics? Who cares. Where are any of those gymnasts now? There's no real fortune that comes with it, and the fame is fleeting. But the lifelong chronic pain stays with you. And now there's the PTSD from sexual assault.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
My sister trained with Dominique Dawes and was actually better than she was, but my parents pulled her out of gymnastics once they realized the craziness of the system. They pushed the kids too hard and had no concern for their wellbeing. They forced them to push through pain and injuries. Any normal parent who loved their child wouldn't let them pursue it at that level.
The fact that these girls suffered injuries and were forced to push through is a red flag. What's the point? Olympics? Who cares. Where are any of those gymnasts now? There's no real fortune that comes with it, and the fame is fleeting. But the lifelong chronic pain stays with you. And now there's the PTSD from sexual assault.
As someone who trained with Dawes (when she first started), there was no one better. Maybe there were other gymnasts who beat her in some competitions, but it was obvious pretty quickly that her potential was far above anyone else's on that team.
As to pushing through pain and injuries, Hill's was actually pretty good about recognizing injuries, far better than other local gyms at the time.
Anonymous wrote:
My sister trained with Dominique Dawes and was actually better than she was, but my parents pulled her out of gymnastics once they realized the craziness of the system. They pushed the kids too hard and had no concern for their wellbeing. They forced them to push through pain and injuries. Any normal parent who loved their child wouldn't let them pursue it at that level.
The fact that these girls suffered injuries and were forced to push through is a red flag. What's the point? Olympics? Who cares. Where are any of those gymnasts now? There's no real fortune that comes with it, and the fame is fleeting. But the lifelong chronic pain stays with you. And now there's the PTSD from sexual assault.