Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Once again, I'm telling you it's true.
Here's the problem - the facts presented are such an aberration it's quite hard to believe. You've reported what appear to be excellent test scores, but no specific description of grades. E.g., was the middle-pack GPA a result of lots of As freshman year, but declining grades as she went up? You've reported nothing about the colleges applied to other than the example of WL at a school comparable to the University of South Carolina. What other schools? If the selection was HYP and USC then maybe it blew up in your face. Nothing about extracurriculars. Nothing about other background issues.
I can believe its true, but I'm not believing this is an otherwise "normal" case that led to these results.
Anonymous wrote:Once again, I'm telling you it's true.
Anonymous wrote:Once again, I'm telling you it's true.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Shocking and horrifying
I don't find this shocking or horrifying but rather a reality check that I will keep in mind as DC heads to another Big 3 for middle school next year. My DH has basically said: You're going there to make good grades. Bring home Bs and Cs and it's Hello Wilson.
Yikes. What about a love of learning and the benefit of having small classes? I went to public and the writing and speaking skills of friends that had gone to private school were paramount - especially DC privates.
I am with the PP. I am not paying $80,000/year for my kids to bring home Bs and Cs, and I've made that perfectly very clear to my kids. If the grades slip, it's public school for them. We struggle to send our kids to private, so they are required to give 100% effort and nothing less. I guess if we were rich my attitude might be different. But we're not. I completely understand where OP is coming from here.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Shocking and horrifying
I don't find this shocking or horrifying but rather a reality check that I will keep in mind as DC heads to another Big 3 for middle school next year. My DH has basically said: You're going there to make good grades. Bring home Bs and Cs and it's Hello Wilson.
Yikes. What about a love of learning and the benefit of having small classes? I went to public and the writing and speaking skills of friends that had gone to private school were paramount - especially DC privates.
Anonymous wrote:The story was not made up. 2310 and 800. Wait listed at a big mediocre state school like South Carolina. Might as well have gone to a shitty high school in the boonies as the NCS grades didn't do anything to open any kind of competitive doors. Not knocking it for everybody - this year's college list is amazing - but for us, it clearly was a poor decision.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Shocking and horrifying
I don't find this shocking or horrifying but rather a reality check that I will keep in mind as DC heads to another Big 3 for middle school next year. My DH has basically said: You're going there to make good grades. Bring home Bs and Cs and it's Hello Wilson.
Anonymous wrote:Also after hearing where the B students from this year's class went I think this whole story was made up. Students with C averages are going places like SMU, Sewanee and Skidmore... not terrible and certainly better than University of South Carolina.