Anonymous wrote:I grew up a member of a country club, and I would never impose such an restricted experience on my children. We've been asked to join by friends, and we've always said NO! Now DH has a new job where all the top people belong to a certain club, and he may have to cave and join. I hope he can find a way to avoid this. There is so, so, so much to do outside of a country club, I can't imagine why they continue to exist at all, except for people who can't bear to spend time around the, gasp, hoi polloi. Anachronism doesn't begin to describe the country club life. We joined a public pool, we play tennis on public courts and at a public tennis club, we eat with our friends in restaurants or in their or our homes, we don't golf (but if we did, we'd play on public courses), and we get along just fine without a country club. I don't want to go back to the 50s. Have you read The Help? That's what country clubs mean to me.
Inside every country club in the Greater Washington Area it is Mississippi and it is 1957. Seriously? I know this will come as a shock to you, but in
Mississippi it isn't 1957. Everyone else has moved on. You need to, too.