Anonymous wrote:Bri is such a male identified loser. She was very unapologetic to Jess for entertaining Chris or to Brittany for the weird Austin trip.

She did apologize to Jess, but I think she and Brittany were the same kind of girl (competing for all the male attention in the room kind of girl) and she didn't feel any loyalty to her so she didn't care. She picked "Devo" in that breakup and doesn't acknowledge a girl code could exist between her and Brittany.

I feel like honestly Brittany didn't have many (/any, except for Amber maybe?) female friendships form in this show. She bought the dress and came for the boys and that's where her head was at. The girls were just competition. I mean did she ever tell Ashley about Alex's weird come-on in Mexico?

Bri is such a male identified loser. She was very unapologetic to Jess for entertaining Chris or to Brittany for the weird Austin trip.

Anonymous wrote:I liked how this reunion was handled, with no vilifying of people. It felt more balanced and like it gave a chance for seeing all perspectives.

I'm glad Jordan told the drunk wedding story rather than allow himself to be pushed under the bus. Also good to hear Vanessa explain that Alex's behavior comes from a lot of trauma (she had a tough childhood herself) Ultimately the show seems to have learned that full on take downs are not ok and everyone there is a flawed person.

Yeah it was really being framed as he's just a frat boy doofus who couldn't handle adulting. She's not ready for a relationship, she hates men! Like says how much she hates them on TV! And then acting like being invited to be his plus-one was an unrealistic expectation he was putting on her, as opposed to a perfectly normal part of being a couple, was super strange.

Brittany's dad was so kind and genuine. Devonte's kid is screwed, I'm sad to say.

I liked how this reunion was handled, with no vilifying of people. It felt more balanced and like it gave a chance for seeing all perspectives.

I'm glad Jordan told the drunk wedding story rather than allow himself to be pushed under the bus. Also good to hear Vanessa explain that Alex's behavior comes from a lot of trauma (she had a tough childhood herself) Ultimately the show seems to have learned that full on take downs are not ok and everyone there is a flawed person.

Anonymous wrote:Sad for Amber. She seems like she has a good heart but has a ton of hurt from her past that has made her incredibly cynical and prickly.

Don’t blame Jordan for ending things because they’re not a good match but man I cannot believe he didn’t say bye to Emma!

Amber is psychotic and needs therapy.

Emma won’t even remember this when she is in middle school.

A long goodbye is crazy. 3 months of a relationship

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Anonymous wrote:For someone so superficial, Alex looked terrible in his tux. He was giving off Mr Belvedere/chunky Lt Ryker vibes.

He looked like he rolled in from an all night bender.

Yeah. Plus, it was so on character for him to compare marriage to soccer. It was nauseating.

I work with a lot of athletes and it’s amazing how much of their training vocabulary they use in non-sport contexts. The number of times I’ve heard “It’s like my coach used to say…” So all of his comments about how it’s game time, I’m lacing up my cleats, etc. completely tracks. As one of the few non-athletes at my job, it takes some getting used to.

I don’t work with athletes, never have. But I work with finance bros and everything you said here checks out. EVERYTHING is a sports analogy 🙄

Most finance bros were athletes.

That said they gotta stop casting people with kids. It’s irresponsible.

Sad for Amber. She seems like she has a good heart but has a ton of hurt from her past that has made her incredibly cynical and prickly.

Don’t blame Jordan for ending things because they’re not a good match but man I cannot believe he didn’t say bye to Emma!

Anonymous wrote:Vic and Christine at the reunión 🥰

I’m not crying

Omg I love them so much. They’re up there with Tiffany and Brett to me.

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Anonymous wrote:Vic and Christine at the reunión 🥰

I’m not crying

Yes. And so happy for Jess and her doctor bf too! He seems really sweet and she deserves that.

NP- I was very excited to see who Jess would end up with because I really liked her during the season and had read a spoiler she was with someone from the pods...I don't think either she or him came off great at the reunion: she was doing weird tiktok gestures and came off immature with the vague therapy talk and all the faces. And he was laying it on too thick with the gushing. It just didn't feel natural at all and was a bit of a red flag. Perhaps it was just nerves from being on the show or feeling some need to over demonstrate and he's better irl.

I felt like it was a response to her being treated poorly on the show and not how he acts all the time. I guess, who knows.

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Anonymous wrote:Vic and Christine at the reunión 🥰

I’m not crying

Yes. And so happy for Jess and her doctor bf too! He seems really sweet and she deserves that.

NP- I was very excited to see who Jess would end up with because I really liked her during the season and had read a spoiler she was with someone from the pods...I don't think either she or him came off great at the reunion: she was doing weird tiktok gestures and came off immature with the vague therapy talk and all the faces. And he was laying it on too thick with the gushing. It just didn't feel natural at all and was a bit of a red flag. Perhaps it was just nerves from being on the show or feeling some need to over demonstrate and he's better irl.

Anonymous wrote:Vic and Christine at the reunión 🥰

I’m not crying

Yes. And so happy for Jess and her doctor bf too! He seems really sweet and she deserves that.

The problem with Amber is she is toooooo jaded

Vic and Christine at the reunión 🥰

I’m not crying

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Anonymous wrote:For someone so superficial, Alex looked terrible in his tux. He was giving off Mr Belvedere/chunky Lt Ryker vibes.

He looked like he rolled in from an all night bender.

Yeah. Plus, it was so on character for him to compare marriage to soccer. It was nauseating.

I work with a lot of athletes and it’s amazing how much of their training vocabulary they use in non-sport contexts. The number of times I’ve heard “It’s like my coach used to say…” So all of his comments about how it’s game time, I’m lacing up my cleats, etc. completely tracks. As one of the few non-athletes at my job, it takes some getting used to.

I don’t work with athletes, never have. But I work with finance bros and everything you said here checks out. EVERYTHING is a sports analogy 🙄