Anonymous
Post 05/11/2023 09:34     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.


Do you feel creepy that he was plotting on having sex with you when you were a child? What a creep!



DP
Actually I had a very, very similar experience myself. Almost same ages and circumstances. I initiated the trysts myself, he merely obliged. I’d had such horrible first sexual experiences with two prior boyfriends that I was on the verge of having an anxiety disorder over it. One of my father’s friends had a reputation as quite a lady’s man, and I approached him and explained my predicament and asked him to help me. I remember asking something to the effect of “can you please show me what GOOD sex is supposed to be like?” or something equally dorky sounding.

He was hesitant at first but I was very insistent and eventually he relented. We had several encounters over a few weeks and he rocked my world every time. Now I not only had a benchmark of what a good lover was like, but I also discovered what I enjoyed, w how to ask for it and enjoy it. Looking back, it was probably one of the smartest things I ever did. I’m sure he enjoyed himself as well, although I’d guess he didn’t get nearly as much out of it as I did.


This is total bullshit. Nice male fantasy dad! 😂😂
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2023 09:29     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
When my then gf- now wife- went away on business for three weeks, I stopped by her group house to retrieve a work bag. Long story short, I end up sleeping with her best friend from childhood/ housemate about a half dozen times over those weeks.

It ended the day she got back and it never reoccurred. Been married 17 years and vacation every summer with the other woman and her husband and kids in the OBX.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2023 08:42     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:That I / we are devastated by a tremendous amount of lost pregnancies in the last 2 years.


I'm so sorry. I can't imagine the pain. Hugs.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 21:02     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.


Yuck. Why?
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 20:54     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.


Do you feel creepy that he was plotting on having sex with you when you were a child? What a creep!



DP
Actually I had a very, very similar experience myself. Almost same ages and circumstances. I initiated the trysts myself, he merely obliged. I’d had such horrible first sexual experiences with two prior boyfriends that I was on the verge of having an anxiety disorder over it. One of my father’s friends had a reputation as quite a lady’s man, and I approached him and explained my predicament and asked him to help me. I remember asking something to the effect of “can you please show me what GOOD sex is supposed to be like?” or something equally dorky sounding.

He was hesitant at first but I was very insistent and eventually he relented. We had several encounters over a few weeks and he rocked my world every time. Now I not only had a benchmark of what a good lover was like, but I also discovered what I enjoyed, w how to ask for it and enjoy it. Looking back, it was probably one of the smartest things I ever did. I’m sure he enjoyed himself as well, although I’d guess he didn’t get nearly as much out of it as I did.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 20:00     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.


Do you feel creepy that he was plotting on having sex with you when you were a child? What a creep!


PP was an adult, and she may have been the one “plotting” it.


Humbert Humbert has entered the chat.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 18:58     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.


Do you feel creepy that he was plotting on having sex with you when you were a child? What a creep!


PP was an adult, and she may have been the one “plotting” it.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 18:57     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.


Do you feel creepy that he was plotting on having sex with you when you were a child? What a creep!
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 18:04     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I was an au pair for two years and had an affair with the “host Dad.” The wife travelled for work often so he was lonely and i was too. He encouraged her to take trips with the family to see her parents who lived overseas and I would often pretend that I was staying with a friend. We. would share weeks together. I fell head over heels for him. I eventually had to leave the home but stayed in the US and am now married. We sometimes go over for dinner with the family.


Hoping this is fake news, but if it isn't wondering if you have a conscience or any morals. Obviously you have not told your spouse this or he wouldn't go visiting that family, so if your story is true sounds like you are a compulsive liar.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 17:21     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.


How does this even start?
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 15:51     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I was an au pair for two years and had an affair with the “host Dad.” The wife travelled for work often so he was lonely and i was too. He encouraged her to take trips with the family to see her parents who lived overseas and I would often pretend that I was staying with a friend. We. would share weeks together. I fell head over heels for him. I eventually had to leave the home but stayed in the US and am now married. We sometimes go over for dinner with the family.

Kewl fake story
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 12:25     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I was an au pair for two years and had an affair with the “host Dad.” The wife travelled for work often so he was lonely and i was too. He encouraged her to take trips with the family to see her parents who lived overseas and I would often pretend that I was staying with a friend. We. would share weeks together. I fell head over heels for him. I eventually had to leave the home but stayed in the US and am now married. We sometimes go over for dinner with the family.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 12:10     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 11:16     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I used to have a dollar with tape on the end I could use to trick vending machines by letting it go in and then snatching it out.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 11:03     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was a total slacker in high school. It told me 6 years to graduate from college. I moved away, reinvented myself and I’m relatively successful.


What motivated you to change?


The people I know who have similar stories attended college later, and graduate in four years. They grew up after HS, matured, became more serious and less social, learned how to study better, and became better students than their peers who went to college right away (straight from HS). Their priorities changed with age.

Some of the peers that went to college straight from HS got tired and became stunted, and started smoking pot, etc. as adults. Which is fine, but they looked down on the other kids in HS, which is the funny part.