Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes, some people die by impulsive suicidal acts and some people by violent and bizarrely placed stabbing. For the most part, though, those groups would not overlap.
Stabbing through your spine and into the back of your neck would be more credible (though still incredibly unusual) if she long history of self mutilation or violence (or was severely impaired w drugs or alcohol at the time.)
The “history of mental illness” she has is not that of a long and serious battle with her mental health. Many women posting here will have had periods of depression where they needed medication and sought counseling at some point in their lives!
Obviously I don’t know what happened but I am in the field and I find the specifics of the suicide story very, very difficult to believe.
She probably has a history of cutting/self-harm. While I understand that cutting itself is not necessarily a suicidal act, it does desensitize and sort of rehearse for suicide. So she could have started out cutting and ended up going the whole way. Also - the cut severing the spinal cord is apparently thought to have been caused by the autopsy.
No evidence that she had a history of self harm. No need to make things up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes, some people die by impulsive suicidal acts and some people by violent and bizarrely placed stabbing. For the most part, though, those groups would not overlap.
Stabbing through your spine and into the back of your neck would be more credible (though still incredibly unusual) if she long history of self mutilation or violence (or was severely impaired w drugs or alcohol at the time.)
The “history of mental illness” she has is not that of a long and serious battle with her mental health. Many women posting here will have had periods of depression where they needed medication and sought counseling at some point in their lives!
Obviously I don’t know what happened but I am in the field and I find the specifics of the suicide story very, very difficult to believe.
She probably has a history of cutting/self-harm. While I understand that cutting itself is not necessarily a suicidal act, it does desensitize and sort of rehearse for suicide. So she could have started out cutting and ended up going the whole way. Also - the cut severing the spinal cord is apparently thought to have been caused by the autopsy.
Anonymous wrote:Yes, some people die by impulsive suicidal acts and some people by violent and bizarrely placed stabbing. For the most part, though, those groups would not overlap.
Stabbing through your spine and into the back of your neck would be more credible (though still incredibly unusual) if she long history of self mutilation or violence (or was severely impaired w drugs or alcohol at the time.)
The “history of mental illness” she has is not that of a long and serious battle with her mental health. Many women posting here will have had periods of depression where they needed medication and sought counseling at some point in their lives!
Obviously I don’t know what happened but I am in the field and I find the specifics of the suicide story very, very difficult to believe.
Anonymous wrote:Yes, some people die by impulsive suicidal acts and some people by violent and bizarrely placed stabbing. For the most part, though, those groups would not overlap.
Stabbing through your spine and into the back of your neck would be more credible (though still incredibly unusual) if she long history of self mutilation or violence (or was severely impaired w drugs or alcohol at the time.)
The “history of mental illness” she has is not that of a long and serious battle with her mental health. Many women posting here will have had periods of depression where they needed medication and sought counseling at some point in their lives!
Obviously I don’t know what happened but I am in the field and I find the specifics of the suicide story very, very difficult to believe.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Paywall. Can you summarize?
Pro tip: Open the link in an incognito window.
Anonymous wrote:Yes, some people die by impulsive suicidal acts and some people by violent and bizarrely placed stabbing. For the most part, though, those groups would not overlap.
Stabbing through your spine and into the back of your neck would be more credible (though still incredibly unusual) if she long history of self mutilation or violence (or was severely impaired w drugs or alcohol at the time.)
The “history of mental illness” she has is not that of a long and serious battle with her mental health. Many women posting here will have had periods of depression where they needed medication and sought counseling at some point in their lives!
Obviously I don’t know what happened but I am in the field and I find the specifics of the suicide story very, very difficult to believe.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:ER doc here. Taken care of many DV victims, more than one self-inflicted stab wound patient. Wounds in this case are too many, too deep, for a person to complete them all autonomously. You can either get a ton in that are superficial or one or two big ones. Not both. He killed her.
Nope. And don’t believe you are an ER doc. And if you are, you haven’t read the ME report and have no real expertise. Most were not deep, they were hesitation wounds which is common. and also, there were no defensive wounds.
Haven’t read the ME report, do have expertise (20 years practicing), don’t care what you believe about my profession on an anon message board. That’s my opinion. You seem mad about it, that’s your issue.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:ER doc here. Taken care of many DV victims, more than one self-inflicted stab wound patient. Wounds in this case are too many, too deep, for a person to complete them all autonomously. You can either get a ton in that are superficial or one or two big ones. Not both. He killed her.
Nope. And don’t believe you are an ER doc. And if you are, you haven’t read the ME report and have no real expertise. Most were not deep, they were hesitation wounds which is common. and also, there were no defensive wounds.
Haven’t read the ME report, do have expertise (20 years practicing), don’t care what you believe about my profession on an anon message board. That’s my opinion. You seem mad about it, that’s your issue.
Anonymous wrote:ER doc here. Taken care of many DV victims, more than one self-inflicted stab wound patient. Wounds in this case are too many, too deep, for a person to complete them all autonomously. You can either get a ton in that are superficial or one or two big ones. Not both. He killed her.
Anonymous wrote:ER doc here. Taken care of many DV victims, more than one self-inflicted stab wound patient. Wounds in this case are too many, too deep, for a person to complete them all autonomously. You can either get a ton in that are superficial or one or two big ones. Not both. He killed her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:ER doc here. Taken care of many DV victims, more than one self-inflicted stab wound patient. Wounds in this case are too many, too deep, for a person to complete them all autonomously. You can either get a ton in that are superficial or one or two big ones. Not both. He killed her.
Nope. And don’t believe you are an ER doc. And if you are, you haven’t read the ME report and have no real expertise. Most were not deep, they were hesitation wounds which is common. and also, there were no defensive wounds.
Anonymous wrote:ER doc here. Taken care of many DV victims, more than one self-inflicted stab wound patient. Wounds in this case are too many, too deep, for a person to complete them all autonomously. You can either get a ton in that are superficial or one or two big ones. Not both. He killed her.
Anonymous wrote:I watched the documentary on this recently. Sam's texts to her are the biggest reason why I don't believe he killed her.
Let's say he killed her. He murdered her, went to the gym for an alibi, and then wanted to send her texts saying he was locked out to further the evidence of suicide.
If that were you, what kind of texts would you send? Wouldn't you send texts like, "honey, I'm locked out! Can you open the door?" "Is everything ok? I'm worried about you." etc...that made you seem like a nice, caring fiancé.
Instead, his texts are really angry and mean. If you know your fiancé is dead and you killed her and you want to make it look like suicide, what sane person would send angry, mean texts knowing it makes you look worse?