Anonymous wrote:The poster at 23:26 who noted that "Lotus..." rated the top three schools to be:
Sidwell - I toured this school with my DD and had the application to fill out (so long). Besides regular stuff, you needed to answer questions to basically prove that you belonged to and raised your children in a Quaker church and/or Quaker lifestyle. You think, "Isn't this a non-denominational school? But, then you read the app with a entire page of religious questions about how you follow the "Society of Friends" philosophies in your home."
Sidwell is a school made up of children who belong to rich and/or VERY famous and well-known parents (every president since the Carter admin has sent their kids here [except Trump], legacies, and very smart kids who are also great at a sport or a musical instrument.
You thought that a Friends school was non-denominational? That's on you. Friends schools are Quaker, and Sidwell is no different. In practice, this means four things. First, Quaker values are baked into classes -- to be specific, what they call SPICES -- simplicity, peace, integrity, community, equality, and stewardship. Second, kids attend Meeting for Worship once a week, which consists of everyone sitting quietly until someone feels moved to speak about something, which they are free to do. Rinse and repeat until time is up. Third, the head of school must be Quaker. Last, the board has a minimum of some number of Quakers. (I can't remember if the last two are by rule or practice, but they are what they are.)
No denying that there's tons of money at Sidwell. One of the most unfortunate things about the current head of school is that he has consistently pushed the school's financial goals higher-and-higher. There are still kids whose parents stretch to send them, as well as some who receive partial of full financial aid. But if you want financial diversity, it's not the place for you. As for fame, each class has a handful of famous parents. But they aren't a dime a dozen. And few of them are "VERY" famous. Some tv news stars are usually kicking around, as well as some political people, although mahy of the latter aren't well known outside of DC.