Anonymous
Post 02/15/2018 15:01     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."


I love how you put overweight in same category as balding. Ugh.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2018 14:38     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards.


Translation: they failed to meet her ridiculously demanding list of "standards" before she would have sex with them, so they got fed up and went away.


Ridiculously demanding?? Are you reading the same post? Her standards seem very reasonable. I'd contact her on this site if she had a user name.


LOL, older women always think their list of 23,487 requirements for men they date is "reasonable".
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2018 13:52     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards.


Translation: they failed to meet her ridiculously demanding list of "standards" before she would have sex with them, so they got fed up and went away.


Ridiculously demanding?? Are you reading the same post? Her standards seem very reasonable. I'd contact her on this site if she had a user name.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2018 13:47     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards.


Translation: they failed to meet her ridiculously demanding list of "standards" before she would have sex with them, so they got fed up and went away.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2018 13:26     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2018 01:02     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

I think I'm the grandpa of this thread and that is not me making those claims about my endowment, or commenting on anyone being tight.

BTW, I've never seen any correlation at all in tightness between older, younger, never had children, or had a few. I think I've only been with one woman who really had an issue there, like a huge issue (and sure, she could just say I have a small issue) and she never had children. Another I remember was really young and thin, when I was really young, and hadn't had any children yet. As for the rest, all but two were just average which is to say they were great. Those two, who were extraordinarily tight, both had two children. Both had a tilted uterus too so I assume there is some connection there. I could be wrong.


How on earth did that come up?


I'm not sure but I don't think it's unusual for women to talk about their body or anatomy with a lover. It just came up. It may have been when I was remarking how unusually tight they were. Both knew they were, from hearing it before so it may have been a discussion to figure out how that happens. So on my very unscientific sampling size of two, I've come to believe there is some connection between the two things. If further research bears this out, I will be sure to keep you all informed. Maybe I should add that note to my dating profile as one of the things I'm seeking. Prefer a woman with a tilted uterus. Would that be too creepy? :-0


Yes, creepy and dumb.
I’m pretty sure that tightness and a tilted uterus are not connected.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201109/the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women%3famp

I don't know any reason why it would. I just related my experience. Both of these women were extremely tight and that's the other thing they had in common. So does correlation=causation? I don't know. But if I run across it again, I'll be intrigued.

Yes, creepy and dumb. I hope you got that I was joking or do you think I'd really put that on a dating sight.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 13:53     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Black don’t crack
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 13:42     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:30 is the magic number for women. It's down hill (very slowly) from there. Once they hit 40 it's like a runaway truck flying down the mountain.


I don't know about that.

I know a ton of black women who look pretty amazing in their late 40s and 50s.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 08:47     Subject: Re:Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
What I learned from this thread as a younger woman:
1) single men who are 50+ years old and single (not widowed) are single for a reason. According to this thread, it seems those are good reasons for their prior SO to run away. I think some of them they've never been into a relationship.
2) men are clueless about female anatomy. The uterus is separated from the vagina by the cervix.
3) some men compare their wives with their moms. Did they want to marry the mom?
4) some brag about the sex with women from countries known for sex slavery, prostitution and high AIDS rates.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 08:36     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:haha this guy, so hung that "plenty" of women are too small to handle him. An actual grown woman can stretch to handle quite a lot, up to and including babies. If you're built as big as a baby head, okay, you're not going to be pleasant to sleep with. I somehow doubt that's the case.

In any case, why get so defensive about 50-year-old women not caring whether you're interested in them, or about the size of your equipment. Holy screaming insecurities.


Sounds like he just wants to show up and jam it on in there which is not going to impress many women.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 08:34     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some men feel threatened by a mature, confident woman who shrugs off a man who's not attracted to her. It doesn't mean she's incapable of an intense, in-love relationship. It means she's not desperate, and she doesn't care about your approval. Mind-boggling concept to some men.


This is so true. Since I am threatened by the mature, confident women, I have to settle for young, tight women. Sometimes life is cruel.


You realize we're all tight if you're not tiny, right?

Sometimes life is cruel.



No, you aren't all tight. I'm really well-endowed, and I can tell the difference.

No, you aren't sweetie. And you know it


Sadly I don't think he does know it.


I'm the man you decided to dog-pile on. I typed up some of my experiences but decided not to post them.

Women are different on the inside just as men as different on the outside. Having children doesn't seem to matter much nor does age. Race matters somewhat. Plenty of women are apparently too small to handle me, which can be frustrating for both me and my partner.


Sweetie, it might be that they aren’t excited enough about you. You need to have more skill and spend more time convincing them first.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 08:31     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

I think I'm the grandpa of this thread and that is not me making those claims about my endowment, or commenting on anyone being tight.

BTW, I've never seen any correlation at all in tightness between older, younger, never had children, or had a few. I think I've only been with one woman who really had an issue there, like a huge issue (and sure, she could just say I have a small issue) and she never had children. Another I remember was really young and thin, when I was really young, and hadn't had any children yet. As for the rest, all but two were just average which is to say they were great. Those two, who were extraordinarily tight, both had two children. Both had a tilted uterus too so I assume there is some connection there. I could be wrong.


How on earth did that come up?


I'm not sure but I don't think it's unusual for women to talk about their body or anatomy with a lover. It just came up. It may have been when I was remarking how unusually tight they were. Both knew they were, from hearing it before so it may have been a discussion to figure out how that happens. So on my very unscientific sampling size of two, I've come to believe there is some connection between the two things. If further research bears this out, I will be sure to keep you all informed. Maybe I should add that note to my dating profile as one of the things I'm seeking. Prefer a woman with a tilted uterus. Would that be too creepy? :-0


Yes, creepy and dumb.
I’m pretty sure that tightness and a tilted uterus are not connected.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201109/the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women%3famp
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 07:10     Subject: Re:Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
This sixty year old man puts most men 30 years younger to shame.

Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 03:24     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
I am 50 and no, that's why I married a 36 year old
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2018 01:59     Subject: Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Then why call a woman a whore for wanting to find a man who can support her and her children? It's not like most women want a sugar daddy so they can do nothing but shop all day. Most women just want a man who can financially support the family because they know that women do the majority of child care and house chores. You try doing the majority of that and wor full time. And no, take out, warming up leftovers, not having your kids bathe for a week, etc. doesn't count as doing the "majority of housework/childcare".


They don't know that. They just think that. It certainly is not true in our household, though I would not be surprised if DW said it was.

Men learn through bitter experience not to expect women to give them credit for anything they do, and also to expect women to give themselves enormous credit for anything they do, including imaginary bullshit like "emotional labor".

Stats say otherwise.


Haw, if you ask women "who does most of the housework" of course they are going to say that they do, but that doesn't mean they actually do.


I have to bite my tongue when my DW wants a medal for doing ordinary Mom things. Such a f**king martyr complex. My mother would never have said half the things about how “hard” being a Mom is. You send care packages to your kid in college b/c you love him/her not because you need validation on what a great Mom you are.