Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 10:32     Subject: Re:BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Will they be pre-gaming?
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 10:29     Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?



Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't want to host them because they are being cheap.


This
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 09:52     Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Of course you say yes. It’s a couple hours one morning for a major life event.


We actually don't know how long it is.

We have no idea if this is an afternoon or evening wedding.
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 08:22     Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Of course you say yes. It’s a couple hours one morning for a major life event.
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 08:07     Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't want to host them because they are being cheap.


+ inconsiderate
They have small kids
Anonymous
Post 02/27/2026 06:58     Subject: Re:BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
would compromise. They can come over an hour before they need to be at the venue to get pictures. Myself, I would send them downstairs. All guys do to get ready is put their clothes on
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 22:58     Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
I wouldn't want to host them because they are being cheap.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 22:57     Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How big is your house? My house is not big enough for this, 2000 sq. ft. 2 bathrooms. I don't like people in my bedroom or bathroom, so, this would be a hard no for me.


From the original post, it sounds like OP has a smaller house as well. If there is no hotel room for the groomsmen to get ready, where are they all staying? Are they local? Is DH the best man? I would be inclined to allow it, but 100% put it on DH to clean, provide food, etc. Maybe you and the kids could even clear out and get a hotel room in the block to get ready.

Maybe one of the groomsmen could get a room in the block instead of expecting a family to clear out for them.