Anonymous
10/25/2022 21:35
Subject: Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Why don’t you just stay single?
Julia Ioffe I believe sounds like this description and she’s actually attractive (minus her voice) and I’m sure her standards are ultra high.
She seems to be ok being single
Julia Ioffe I believe sounds like this description and she’s actually attractive (minus her voice) and I’m sure her standards are ultra high.
She seems to be ok being single
Anonymous
10/25/2022 20:21
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op, you need to work on your looks and weight. I am 43, and I had a smart lipo done on my butt, waist, belly neck while I was not even fat. I just want to be perfect (no flabby skin, no neck aging sings, perfect waist contours etc). Series of massage with warm wraps, swimming, fast walking helps to achieve perfect body and glowing looks.
It costs money to look good after certain age. I look 30+, not 40+ after my beauty regime. You are in the age when you are competing with attractive divorced women with money; and many of them would be more attractive comparing to you. I date men about same age as mine, 40-early 50s (divorced guys but LTR oriented, some still want kids or never had kids).
You should make this investment in yourself and you'll see the difference! Make sure you have around $20K "budget" for a makeover. You can even become blond (I chose not to).
The first paragraph of this literally cracked me up, and I thank you sincerely for that.
You're welcome. It's a serious sh..t though, and helps women look at their best and be confident. It was important to me and I am happy I did it and didn't bury myself in "body positivity". Because I just didn't feel very positive looking at my saggy neck in the mirror.
where do you go to get work done?
It really depends on the procedure: I did some things in Toronto, some in McLean, some in St Louis, MO. You need to interview and do a lot of research
Anonymous
10/25/2022 19:58
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op, you need to work on your looks and weight. I am 43, and I had a smart lipo done on my butt, waist, belly neck while I was not even fat. I just want to be perfect (no flabby skin, no neck aging sings, perfect waist contours etc). Series of massage with warm wraps, swimming, fast walking helps to achieve perfect body and glowing looks.
It costs money to look good after certain age. I look 30+, not 40+ after my beauty regime. You are in the age when you are competing with attractive divorced women with money; and many of them would be more attractive comparing to you. I date men about same age as mine, 40-early 50s (divorced guys but LTR oriented, some still want kids or never had kids).
You should make this investment in yourself and you'll see the difference! Make sure you have around $20K "budget" for a makeover. You can even become blond (I chose not to).
The first paragraph of this literally cracked me up, and I thank you sincerely for that.
You're welcome. It's a serious sh..t though, and helps women look at their best and be confident. It was important to me and I am happy I did it and didn't bury myself in "body positivity". Because I just didn't feel very positive looking at my saggy neck in the mirror.
where do you go to get work done?
OMG you acting out Creep by Radiohead!
I don't care if it hurts
I wanna have control
I want a perfect body
I want a perfect soul…..
Anonymous
10/25/2022 19:54
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op, you need to work on your looks and weight. I am 43, and I had a smart lipo done on my butt, waist, belly neck while I was not even fat. I just want to be perfect (no flabby skin, no neck aging sings, perfect waist contours etc). Series of massage with warm wraps, swimming, fast walking helps to achieve perfect body and glowing looks.
It costs money to look good after certain age. I look 30+, not 40+ after my beauty regime. You are in the age when you are competing with attractive divorced women with money; and many of them would be more attractive comparing to you. I date men about same age as mine, 40-early 50s (divorced guys but LTR oriented, some still want kids or never had kids).
You should make this investment in yourself and you'll see the difference! Make sure you have around $20K "budget" for a makeover. You can even become blond (I chose not to).
The first paragraph of this literally cracked me up, and I thank you sincerely for that.
You're welcome. It's a serious sh..t though, and helps women look at their best and be confident. It was important to me and I am happy I did it and didn't bury myself in "body positivity". Because I just didn't feel very positive looking at my saggy neck in the mirror.
where do you go to get work done?
Anonymous
07/30/2022 10:51
Subject: Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?
OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.
I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.
Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?
Its depressing.
Male here. With a SHF in Chevy Chase. Private school for my kids. You sound dull and materialistic. What do you bring to the table?
Lower your standards and you’ll find a great guy. I married the chief building engineer of the building I work in. Much to my surprise, his take home salary exceeded mine. He’s a great guy, and even a better husband. His background is nothing like yours or any of your friends, he’s hardworking, not afraid to get dirty, or work late. We travel internationally, have a modest home in Chevy Chase, a few vehicles and a powerboat. Many of my friends questioned me initially, and now want to know if he has single friends. I found my diamond in the rough, and am nothing but happy!!
Anonymous
07/27/2022 07:09
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Anonymous wrote:Hi OP, guess what instead of looking outward o find happiness and rely on a husband to get me where I wan to be I worked my way into a 1m a year income. My husband makes a good living too.
PS. We travel everywhere including the OBX.
What do you do ?
Anonymous
07/27/2022 01:01
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Hi OP, guess what instead of looking outward o find happiness and rely on a husband to get me where I wan to be I worked my way into a 1m a year income. My husband makes a good living too.
PS. We travel everywhere including the OBX.
PS. We travel everywhere including the OBX.
Anonymous
07/18/2022 23:44
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Anonymous wrote:I think OP got scared off. Not fun stuff to hear but it is all pretty real
OP is a troll dummies. She threw out a bomb and is gleeful that her stupid post generated 21 pages of replies.
Anonymous
07/18/2022 21:53
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
My favorite memory at a castle in Croatia was all of these cats roaming freely up and down the castle stairs.
I (probably foolishly) gave one a treat and then all of a sudden I had about 20+ cats following us around Pied Piper style much to my wife's amusement & delight.
My favorite kitty was a Himalayan female sweetheart who was my baby when I was single.
I still grieve & miss her
Have a good evening..
I (probably foolishly) gave one a treat and then all of a sudden I had about 20+ cats following us around Pied Piper style much to my wife's amusement & delight.
My favorite kitty was a Himalayan female sweetheart who was my baby when I was single.
I still grieve & miss her
Have a good evening..
Anonymous
07/18/2022 21:50
Subject: Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Anonymous wrote:Blonde is easy. Sounds like losing the weight is just too hard for you? That's fine but you've answered your own question. You need to settle.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?
OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.
I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.
Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?
Its depressing.
Loosing weight is extremely painful, expensive and hard work. Either endless gym hours or a liposuction of literally everything from neck to butt. It requires local numbing for best results, takes at least two 4hr long surgeries. Terrible pain during and after surgery for a few days; recovery time 6 months after each (with no dating dorks); courage not to look at yourself in the mirror and trust your surgeon. Also $20k "budget". These are strong women who achieve perfect bodies, one way or another.
Been there and I think now looking back gym and diet is easier. So now I just don't eat sugars&junk and in generally don't eat after 7pm.
Anonymous
07/18/2022 21:39
Subject: Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Blonde is easy. Sounds like losing the weight is just too hard for you? That's fine but you've answered your own question. You need to settle.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?
OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.
I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.
Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?
Its depressing.
Anonymous
07/18/2022 21:38
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Anonymous wrote:Been to a couple of the islands you mentioned.
Also Croatia (cool castles).
I'm not trying to one up you, I'm trying to describe that finding someone who loves you for you if magically poof! the money was gone is what is priceless.
Especially as you grow older or have a family.
The hardest is not to find the one who stays with you when the money is gone. It’s to find someone who won’t “upgrade” you when all the money in the world falls upon you after many years in humility, and when there are way more opportunities. The big money test is hardest in my experience. People tend to change unless they already came into marriage with money.
So it’s kind of you being already wealthy when you met your wife, and choosing her as a good fit for your de-facto wealthy lifestyle, is what kept you together. Plus both of you just being caring of others based on your love to animals. Few men like kittens; my exH was throwing a slipper at a family cat.
Anonymous
07/18/2022 21:31
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
Been to a couple of the islands you mentioned.
Also Croatia (cool castles).
I'm not trying to one up you, I'm trying to describe that finding someone who loves you for you if magically poof! the money was gone is what is priceless.
Especially as you grow older or have a family.
Also Croatia (cool castles).
I'm not trying to one up you, I'm trying to describe that finding someone who loves you for you if magically poof! the money was gone is what is priceless.
Especially as you grow older or have a family.
Anonymous
07/18/2022 21:25
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
You can still own beach houses in Delaware and Virginia and still rent elsewhere.
I like the diversity of beach vacations too such as the Bahamas and western Caribbean.
Virginia beach NE is cleaner than Bethany btw.
Much, much quieter.
I like the diversity of beach vacations too such as the Bahamas and western Caribbean.
Virginia beach NE is cleaner than Bethany btw.
Much, much quieter.
Anonymous
07/18/2022 20:52
Subject: Re:Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get
And yes, I would have never own a beach house in Virginia or Delaware. Too much pollution, expensive to maintain if you don't live there full time and boring. I prefer going places for beach, each time a new destination and it's way cheaper than maintenance on a beach house.