Anonymous wrote:OP,
Children arrive when they arrive, and there's nothing you can do about it, apart from a scheduled C-section.
DC1 was supposed to arrive in June and arrived in April (!!!).
DC2 was supposed to arrive in May and arrived in April.
Their birthdays ended up being 2 weeks apart, which is totally fine, because usually we have a small family celebration on each day, and then parties that can be pretty far removed from the actual birth date!
This is her third baby. I think she understands this.