Anonymous
08/01/2021 22:49
Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting
Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.
Woman here. It's 2021, who cares if a woman pays. It's his birthday so you probably should have told him beforehand that you wanted to take him to dinner.
Yes it is 2021 and bad tact is bad tact regardless
Anonymous
08/01/2021 19:44
Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting
Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.
Woman here. It's 2021, who cares if a woman pays. It's his birthday so you probably should have told him beforehand that you wanted to take him to dinner.
A man says another man's behavior is off and a woman swoops in to defend him and tell him he's wrong. You can't make this stuff up.
Anonymous
08/01/2021 19:33
Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you seen him again, OP?
OP here. No, I decided not to see him anymore. In addition to the rude comment he was super aggressive physically at the end of the date. Just not my cup of tea.
Did you tell him though?
Anonymous
08/01/2021 19:28
Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you seen him again, OP?
OP here. No, I decided not to see him anymore. In addition to the rude comment he was super aggressive physically at the end of the date. Just not my cup of tea.
Eww. Such a turn off.
Anonymous
08/01/2021 18:48
Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting
Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.
Woman here. It's 2021, who cares if a woman pays. It's his birthday so you probably should have told him beforehand that you wanted to take him to dinner.
Anonymous
08/01/2021 17:22
Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you seen him again, OP?
OP here. No, I decided not to see him anymore. In addition to the rude comment he was super aggressive physically at the end of the date. Just not my cup of tea.
Oh no! Good call on not seeing him again. Better luck with the next guy.
Anonymous
08/01/2021 14:26
Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Have you seen him again, OP?
OP here. No, I decided not to see him anymore. In addition to the rude comment he was super aggressive physically at the end of the date. Just not my cup of tea.
Anonymous
08/01/2021 14:08
Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting
Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.
I agree. I would have been turned off by that comment.
Anonymous
08/01/2021 13:59
Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Have you seen him again, OP?
Anonymous
08/01/2021 11:06
Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Did he take you out the first two times?
It’s not about paying, it’s about the crassness of asking someone to pay for him. Tacky.
Yep.
Anonymous
08/01/2021 10:59
Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Did he take you out the first two times?
It’s not about paying, it’s about the crassness of asking someone to pay for him. Tacky.
Anonymous
07/31/2021 19:28
Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Did he take you out the first two times?
Anonymous
07/31/2021 07:42
Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting
Guys perspective here, dump him. That was beyond rude and indicative of future behavior.
Anonymous
07/31/2021 01:47
Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:No, you didn't need to say it when you sat down. I agree that was tacky of him to say. I always pick up the check on the third date but I don't say it off the bat!
Bit this was a gift, not a random date. Saying it upfront would've shown that OP was intentionally giving him a bday gift. As opposed to, "oh sure, I got this."
Anonymous
07/31/2021 00:16
Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Easy. BJ.
This was definitely posted by a man!
lol 😝