Who bought the tomato?

This would be stressful for me but it’s also why I don’t go in vacation with other families. In theory the kids would love it if my sisters family went away with us. The cousins get along great. We would drive each other crazy. She would think I was controlling over food and too strict. I would think she doesn’t give her kids any real food and all they eat is junk and sugar all day. And then there would be the different attitudes towards bedtime…. So we don’t do it.