Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I suggest you go to BM OP and leave the MV spot to a family who is really interested in the school and committed to it.
Unfortunately that’s not how it works and charters are full of half committed families that are there for lack of better options.
Seriously. They may start committed, but reality has a way of creeping in.
It’s easy to be committed when it’s all sunshine and roses in ECE. Then you realize your supposedly great school has serious weaknesses but you’re trapped unless you want to give up a middle school feed or move. So people deal with a crazy amount because of sunk cost bias. At least OP seems to be going in with her eyes open.
THIS. +100. MV is similar to most of these “HRCS” in that as the kids get older, behavior and social emotional issues become more challenging, translating into significant classroom (and learning) disruption. Its relatively easy for these schools to adhere closely to their mission (and dare I say) marketing messaging in K or 1st grade. But by 3rd,4rth grade the wheels start to come off and teacher turnover sky rockets.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I suggest you go to BM OP and leave the MV spot to a family who is really interested in the school and committed to it.
Unfortunately that’s not how it works and charters are full of half committed families that are there for lack of better options.
Seriously. They may start committed, but reality has a way of creeping in.
It’s easy to be committed when it’s all sunshine and roses in ECE. Then you realize your supposedly great school has serious weaknesses but you’re trapped unless you want to give up a middle school feed or move. So people deal with a crazy amount because of sunk cost bias. At least OP seems to be going in with her eyes open.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We left the upper elementary right before the pandemic (so I can't speak to anything since then). Classroom management was one big concern. The teacher basically admitted she was totally overwhelmed with the behavioral issues and divergent levels. we got really frustrated with the teacher turn over. Our kid (smart but a bit of trouble when bored) was absolutely unchallenged. I just didn't want to stick around and let me kid think they are bad because the school wasn't able to challenge them, and I didn't want to wait and see if it was true what I'd heard, that the MV kids at DCI were behind their piers from other schools. We had a good experience in lower elementary though, and maybe for a different kid the fit would have been better. Good luck.
Thank you for sharing, PP. Where did you go? Did the school seem unwilling to meet your child's needs regarding being challenged, or was what they offered just insufficient? Was there a cohort of kids that were similarly unchallenged in the class?
My child seems similar, so a lot of our debate regarding schools is anticipating these exact issues. I don't think DCPS is universally better, but I do think our DCPS (BM) has more experienced teachers, more established curriculum, and better ability/willingness to differentiate. Whether that translates into a better experience for DC is what I'm less clear on.
This is the part that is really personal. Will your child have a cohort of at least a few academic peers? How comfortable are you being a racial minority? We are at an EOTP DCPS school that many people left, but my children have really thrived academically and they are close to their friends. And by upper elementary you are left with a very cool cohort, bc it is people who have actively decided to stay and are comfortable.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I suggest you go to BM OP and leave the MV spot to a family who is really interested in the school and committed to it.
Unfortunately that’s not how it works and charters are full of half committed families that are there for lack of better options.
Seriously. They may start committed, but reality has a way of creeping in.
It’s easy to be committed when it’s all sunshine and roses in ECE. Then you realize your supposedly great school has serious weaknesses but you’re trapped unless you want to give up a middle school feed or move. So people deal with a crazy amount because of sunk cost bias. At least OP seems to be going in with her eyes open.
True, but in most cases it’s not like you had a ton of options to begin with.