Anonymous
06/26/2021 21:11
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s not the mama bear instinct that’s weird, or thinking a kid is a behavioral nightmare or mean, it’s the maintaining outside of the heat of the moment that she hates a little child and the she’s certain the “dead eyed” girl will remain a b1tch for life. Apparently there are lots of you who think like that but there are many of us who don’t!
+1. And honestly the sympathy I felt for OP at the start of the thread has begun to wane after reading her subsequent responses.
+2
Anonymous
06/26/2021 21:01
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s not the mama bear instinct that’s weird, or thinking a kid is a behavioral nightmare or mean, it’s the maintaining outside of the heat of the moment that she hates a little child and the she’s certain the “dead eyed” girl will remain a b1tch for life. Apparently there are lots of you who think like that but there are many of us who don’t!
There are many that have experienced this phenomenon, of a more able-bodied kid mocking a SN, who seem to feel as I do. I’m good with that.
I’m sure that will serve you well in life.
I think it will, and has. I emailed the school to request they not be in the same class based on the thread, and got some posts from some BTDT moms in support. And I got to really spill. Not a bad result.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:48
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s not the mama bear instinct that’s weird, or thinking a kid is a behavioral nightmare or mean, it’s the maintaining outside of the heat of the moment that she hates a little child and the she’s certain the “dead eyed” girl will remain a b1tch for life. Apparently there are lots of you who think like that but there are many of us who don’t!
There are many that have experienced this phenomenon, of a more able-bodied kid mocking a SN, who seem to feel as I do. I’m good with that.
I’m sure that will serve you well in life.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:47
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:It’s not the mama bear instinct that’s weird, or thinking a kid is a behavioral nightmare or mean, it’s the maintaining outside of the heat of the moment that she hates a little child and the she’s certain the “dead eyed” girl will remain a b1tch for life. Apparently there are lots of you who think like that but there are many of us who don’t!
+1. And honestly the sympathy I felt for OP at the start of the thread has begun to wane after reading her subsequent responses.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:43
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:It’s not the mama bear instinct that’s weird, or thinking a kid is a behavioral nightmare or mean, it’s the maintaining outside of the heat of the moment that she hates a little child and the she’s certain the “dead eyed” girl will remain a b1tch for life. Apparently there are lots of you who think like that but there are many of us who don’t!
There are many that have experienced this phenomenon, of a more able-bodied kid mocking a SN, who seem to feel as I do. I’m good with that.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:39
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
It’s not the mama bear instinct that’s weird, or thinking a kid is a behavioral nightmare or mean, it’s the maintaining outside of the heat of the moment that she hates a little child and the she’s certain the “dead eyed” girl will remain a b1tch for life. Apparently there are lots of you who think like that but there are many of us who don’t!
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:32
Subject: I hate a mean kid.
Op, you can be annoyed and aghast at the girl's parents, but there kid is a kid. Kids are little sponges and they try out different personalities. Is her behavior horrendous? Sounds like yes, it can be. Is she a horrendous person? I'd say probably not. She's a child. She still has plenty of opportunities to learn and grow. Take the high road.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:22
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lay off the OP. This is a repeated pattern of bullying from this girl.
At some point we all have a breaking point. She’s venting.
she’s insulting the appearance of a 6 year old. it’s over the top.
That wasn't OP!
OP here, and I did this, too. Not my finest moment, but I did admit to venting and I can’t delete it.
Pot. Kettle. Black.
OP, the difference between you and a 6 year old is that you are an adult, and you know better.
Oh stop. We've all got the mama bear instinct when someone messes with our kid. OP, don't feel sorry for your feelings and don't feel bad about posting to an anonymous message board. You are not saying these things out loud BECAUSE you are an adult and know better. Previous poster is ridiculous for comparing.
Yup. But they should know the paperwork for her canonization has been sent to Rome.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:22
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lay off the OP. This is a repeated pattern of bullying from this girl.
At some point we all have a breaking point. She’s venting.
she’s insulting the appearance of a 6 year old. it’s over the top.
That wasn't OP!
OP here, and I did this, too. Not my finest moment, but I did admit to venting and I can’t delete it.
Pot. Kettle. Black.
OP, the difference between you and a 6 year old is that you are an adult, and you know better.
Girl. Please. Try. It. Elsewhere.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:10
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lay off the OP. This is a repeated pattern of bullying from this girl.
At some point we all have a breaking point. She’s venting.
she’s insulting the appearance of a 6 year old. it’s over the top.
That wasn't OP!
OP here, and I did this, too. Not my finest moment, but I did admit to venting and I can’t delete it.
Pot. Kettle. Black.
OP, the difference between you and a 6 year old is that you are an adult, and you know better.
+1
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:07
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lay off the OP. This is a repeated pattern of bullying from this girl.
At some point we all have a breaking point. She’s venting.
she’s insulting the appearance of a 6 year old. it’s over the top.
That wasn't OP!
OP here, and I did this, too. Not my finest moment, but I did admit to venting and I can’t delete it.
Pot. Kettle. Black.
OP, the difference between you and a 6 year old is that you are an adult, and you know better.
Oh stop. We've all got the mama bear instinct when someone messes with our kid. OP, don't feel sorry for your feelings and don't feel bad about posting to an anonymous message board. You are not saying these things out loud BECAUSE you are an adult and know better. Previous poster is ridiculous for comparing.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 20:03
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lay off the OP. This is a repeated pattern of bullying from this girl.
At some point we all have a breaking point. She’s venting.
she’s insulting the appearance of a 6 year old. it’s over the top.
That wasn't OP!
OP here, and I did this, too. Not my finest moment, but I did admit to venting and I can’t delete it.
Pot. Kettle. Black.
OP, the difference between you and a 6 year old is that you are an adult, and you know better.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 19:56
Subject: Re:I hate a mean kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lay off the OP. This is a repeated pattern of bullying from this girl.
At some point we all have a breaking point. She’s venting.
she’s insulting the appearance of a 6 year old. it’s over the top.
That wasn't OP!
OP here, and I did this, too. Not my finest moment, but I did admit to venting and I can’t delete it.
The point of the thread is we all have these thoughts and feelings. It’s fine. Our kids are hurting and we have some bad thoughts. You didn’t say it out loud to anyone!
Don’t let these people shame you.
I don’t think everyone does have these thoughts. If I did I hope I would see them for what they are-unrealistic vilification and catstrophixibg of a little girl, albeit a bratty one. Op is writing as though she believes she is right that this is an irredeemably bad (and ugly!) child who has behaved monstrously. That’s…a bit much.
Good for you that you don’t. Extra moral high ground bonus points if you’ve sincerely watched your kid get picked on repeatedly and suffer and never had an unkind thought. You win.
Also some humans are ugly. Even kids. Get real.
Anonymous
06/26/2021 19:35
Subject: I hate a mean kid.
^your, sorry, tired
Anonymous
06/26/2021 19:34
Subject: I hate a mean kid.
Teach you’re daughter to say with a sarcastic tone, “Gee, Larla, you’re kind of an asshole.” If she says it and the mean kid tells her parents, just respond “she was kidding? Can’t Larla take a joke?!”