Anonymous wrote:This is why I do not understand why people do not allow their kids to use their homes for meeting with their BF/GF. Getting caught in a car or in an open area is such a painful experience. They are going to be doing it anyway and better to be safe.

We have been allowing our DD since she was 16 to lock her her when she is with her BF. No idea what they do but she is on birth control.

My HS boyfriends dad did. He also bought him a massive box of condoms. He (the dad) was never home when we were intimate, but wanted to be sure we didn’t get into trouble. Out of all of my friends I probably had the safest and healthiest relationship with sex and my body. The kids that had to sneak around had more troubles. I don’t know that I could extend that privacy to my child, but I appreciate that dad’s foresight in retrospect. And thankfully he never let on to me he knew what was up.

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Anonymous wrote:This is why I do not understand why people do not allow their kids to use their homes for meeting with their BF/GF. Getting caught in a car or in an open area is such a painful experience. They are going to be doing it anyway and better to be safe.

We have been allowing our DD since she was 16 to lock her her when she is with her BF. No idea what they do but she is on birth control.

Do you also offer a beverage and a cigarette to your daughter and her boyfriend after coitus?

Wait, she's too young to smoke...

I don't get it. Staying hydrated is important, especially when engaging in physical exercise.

I feel sorry that you have to deny your child the use of their own home and risk it out in a car and open area where others can see and who knows even record.

Just because you are not allowing use of your home does not mean kids would abstain. Never has and never will. Most would agree on this.

Then why the hesitation on making it safe and comfortable? Glad that BF's family were receptive to the idea and not like you folks.

I guess a beverage, DINNER and a cigarette works for you. LOL

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Anonymous wrote:This is why I do not understand why people do not allow their kids to use their homes for meeting with their BF/GF. Getting caught in a car or in an open area is such a painful experience. They are going to be doing it anyway and better to be safe.

We have been allowing our DD since she was 16 to lock her her when she is with her BF. No idea what they do but she is on birth control.

Do you also offer a beverage and a cigarette to your daughter and her boyfriend after coitus?

Wait, she's too young to smoke...

I don't get it. Staying hydrated is important, especially when engaging in physical exercise.

I feel sorry that you have to deny your child the use of their own home and risk it out in a car and open area where others can see and who knows even record.

Just because you are not allowing use of your home does not mean kids would abstain. Never has and never will. Most would agree on this.

Then why the hesitation on making it safe and comfortable? Glad that BF's family were receptive to the idea and not like you folks.

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Anonymous wrote:This is why I do not understand why people do not allow their kids to use their homes for meeting with their BF/GF. Getting caught in a car or in an open area is such a painful experience. They are going to be doing it anyway and better to be safe.

We have been allowing our DD since she was 16 to lock her her when she is with her BF. No idea what they do but she is on birth control.

Do you also offer a beverage and a cigarette to your daughter and her boyfriend after coitus?

Wait, she's too young to smoke...

I don't get it. Staying hydrated is important, especially when engaging in physical exercise.

Anonymous wrote:This is why I do not understand why people do not allow their kids to use their homes for meeting with their BF/GF. Getting caught in a car or in an open area is such a painful experience. They are going to be doing it anyway and better to be safe.

We have been allowing our DD since she was 16 to lock her her when she is with her BF. No idea what they do but she is on birth control.

Do you also offer a beverage and a cigarette to your daughter and her boyfriend after coitus?

Wait, she's too young to smoke...

Anonymous wrote:This is why I do not understand why people do not allow their kids to use their homes for meeting with their BF/GF. Getting caught in a car or in an open area is such a painful experience. They are going to be doing it anyway and better to be safe.

We have been allowing our DD since she was 16 to lock her her when she is with her BF. No idea what they do but she is on birth control.

Nope, wrong, wrong, wrong.

I do NOT need to hear my 16 year old daughter banging next door!

This is why I do not understand why people do not allow their kids to use their homes for meeting with their BF/GF. Getting caught in a car or in an open area is such a painful experience. They are going to be doing it anyway and better to be safe.

We have been allowing our DD since she was 16 to lock her her when she is with her BF. No idea what they do but she is on birth control.

Sex was meh in HS. I constantly worried about getting it in my hair. BF would barely be able to hold the time it took to put on a condom.

I've always enjoyed sex, even as a teenager. I climax very easily, especially with piv sex. I know I'm not the norm but there are those of us that orgasm easily.

My high school boyfriend (now husband) and I used to have sex at my house before school whenever we could! We still smile about it and have fond memories.

We both went on to college and grad school (he to med school) and have been happily married for over 16 years with three kids.

I totally think sex anywhere and any age between 16 and 21 is good or bad depending on the kids involved. We were (and are) in love.

Anonymous wrote:I look back to all the high school sex my husband and I had and think "why?". I don't think I orgasmed until we were older and both felt a little more confident and knew what we were doing. Are other hs girls getting off or just going along?

You know what they say about bad sex, right?

I would never have had sex before school when I was that age!

That's WAY too early in the morning! I could barely crawl out of bed in time to make the bus!

Anonymous wrote:I look back to all the high school sex my husband and I had and think "why?". I don't think I orgasmed until we were older and both felt a little more confident and knew what we were doing. Are other hs girls getting off or just going along?

Same with me. It is easy for the guys I guess but it took me until I was a senior at college to finally meet someone who knows what he was doing. In HS it was always over in a flash.

Yesterday we walked by a car that is running but did not see anyone in it at a HS parking lot. I was holding my 5 year old as we are walking past it just worried it might move and wanted to just make eye contact with the driver to let them know we are passing in front. I was surprised no one is in the driver seat and then found out what is going on as they hurriedly covered up. Would be walking far away from cars parked at HS from now on.

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Anonymous wrote:In school I knew people who had sex in their cars in the school parking lot before class.

This

I pulled up to my son's school an early morning and mistakenly parked in the Senior lot and there were a few cars parked with steamy windows. I'm talking 7:30 am.