Think about what you would do if you wanted to make your own money. You know, go to law school, study engineering, work hard... then find a guy that has done or is doing those things.

If you’re young enough with adequate grades from undergrad, go to a graduate program at an Ivy. Many people there are seeking their prospective spouses.

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to struggle, I do not understand a lot of these responses.

Here is my advice to young guys with money — I was in your shoes not too long ago and I dated a lot of women as many younger guys who find themselves with a lot of money do. Avoid women like OP like the plague. At first it’s difficult, but eventually they are easy to spot. There are many wonderful women out there who don’t see you as a bank account and actually love you for who you are as a person and would stick by you if hard times ever came. Fine one and treat her well.

The men you overlooked in yours 20s are now making great money and won't want you anymore. Too bad, so sad.

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Anonymous wrote:American women are the only women who shame each other for marrying up and attempting to better their own and potential children's financial situation.

It’s the 21st century. Make your own money.

Sure right after American husbands start raising their own kids and cleaning their own houses.

OK, you have a point.

Anonymous wrote:Lol something tells me that OP's gonna wind up old, unattractive, with cats, and on Prozac. We avoid you hags like the plague, just FYI. You lot are all too easy to sniff out.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:American women are the only women who shame each other for marrying up and attempting to better their own and potential children's financial situation.

Hmm I think the Middleton sisters might disagree with this, the way they were hounded for years in the British press.

And they met them on Tinder or Okcupid

They were rich themselves. Not old money, but parents were very wealthy. They went to right schools and connected from the same social circles.

Eh, you have to do what Melania did, but with an actual rich guy.

Anonymous wrote:American women are the only women who shame each other for marrying up and attempting to better their own and potential children's financial situation.

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Remember when Melania attempted that?

Go to uppity coffee shops (e.g., Northside Social in Falls Church, Mosaic District, etc.) during the day and look for men (patrons) who are working remotely there.

If I was single and you targeted me on a dating site, hoping I would take care of financially so you could quit your stupid admin job at whatever save the kittens non-prof you work at, and I found out all you care about is money, I would hit it and quit it. Men can see through desperation.

Anonymous wrote:American women are the only women who shame each other for marrying up and attempting to better their own and potential children's financial situation.

So true! All women should do this if not for their sake, them for their kids'

Lol something tells me that OP's gonna wind up old, unattractive, with cats, and on Prozac. We avoid you hags like the plague, just FYI. You lot are all too easy to sniff out.

Anonymous wrote:American women are the only women who shame each other for marrying up and attempting to better their own and potential children's financial situation.

Hmm I think the Middleton sisters might disagree with this, the way they were hounded for years in the British press.

Anonymous wrote:Are you willing to date Republicans or libertarians? Are you willing to pretend to be a Republican or libertarian?

Or a far lefty?