Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:21
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
Who are you to deem them any less trans than an “actual trans” person?
She’s not saying she’s trans though, is she? That’s the problem.
I don't find it to be a problem. But no they are not coming out as trans.
I think nonbinary is actually great for especially queer kids to see. They don't have to commit to transitioning just because they don't feel particularly "right" in their assigned gender.
That said, I would not be shocked if Demi is trying on a ton of identities much in order to make themselves feel "OK now". It seems more like a desperate search for the truth that will make things all better, not a revelation about the truth that was always sitting there. Not sure if that makes sense.
What does it mean to feel “right” in your assigned gender?
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:20
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
Who are you to deem them any less trans than an “actual trans” person?
She’s not saying she’s trans though, is she? That’s the problem.
I don't find it to be a problem. But no they are not coming out as trans.
I think nonbinary is actually great for especially queer kids to see. They don't have to commit to transitioning just because they don't feel particularly "right" in their assigned gender.
That said, I would not be shocked if Demi is trying on a ton of identities much in order to make themselves feel "OK now". It seems more like a desperate search for the truth that will make things all better, not a revelation about the truth that was always sitting there. Not sure if that makes sense.
ONE LAST TIME: YOU ARE NOT ASSIGNED A “GENDER” AT BIRTH. YOU ARE ASSIGNED A “SEX”. IF YOU ARE A MASCULINE FEMALE, YOU CAN STILL BE A SHE/HER FEMALE. WHAT MAKES YOU TRANS IS WHEN YOU ARE DISGUSTED BY YOUR BODY AND FEEL YOU HAVE THE LITERAL WRONG GENITALIA. IT’S NOT SOME “I LIKE DRESSES BUT I HAVE A DICK” OR “I DON’T WANT TO DRESS FEMININE AND I’M A LESBIAN” THING. IT’S BODY DYSMORPHIA. STOP BEING SO STUPID.
Sheesh.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:19
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
Who are you to deem them any less trans than an “actual trans” person?
She’s not saying she’s trans though, is she? That’s the problem.
So according to you, it is OK to be an "actual trans" person, but it is not OK to be non-binary?
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:18
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Demi seems to be a great candidate for a conservatorship. Britney didn't go off the rails quite like Demi has managed (especially in such a short window with that FroYo triggered BS).
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:18
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
Who are you to deem them any less trans than an “actual trans” person?
She’s not saying she’s trans though, is she? That’s the problem.
I don't find it to be a problem. But no they are not coming out as trans.
I think nonbinary is actually great for especially queer kids to see. They don't have to commit to transitioning just because they don't feel particularly "right" in their assigned gender.
That said, I would not be shocked if Demi is trying on a ton of identities much in order to make themselves feel "OK now". It seems more like a desperate search for the truth that will make things all better, not a revelation about the truth that was always sitting there. Not sure if that makes sense.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:15
Subject: Re:Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They are so annoying.
It's also none of your business what they call themselves. Their goal is not to please or placate you.
Pretty sure she made it our business, though.
How does it affect you? Are you too feebleminded to handle they vs. she? Does it give you brain aches?
Generally speaking, no, I’m fine with they/them. But everything about Demi makes my brain hurt.
Then close People magazine and go do something useful with your life.
Same, babe.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:11
Subject: Re:Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They are so annoying.
It's also none of your business what they call themselves. Their goal is not to please or placate you.
Pretty sure she made it our business, though.
How does it affect you? Are you too feebleminded to handle they vs. she? Does it give you brain aches?
Generally speaking, no, I’m fine with they/them. But everything about Demi makes my brain hurt.
Then close People magazine and go do something useful with your life.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:11
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
Who are you to deem them any less trans than an “actual trans” person?
She’s not saying she’s trans though, is she? That’s the problem.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:10
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
Sorry, but this is what "actual trans people" look like. They're it.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:10
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
Who are you to deem them any less trans than an “actual trans” person?
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:09
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Well, this explains the haircut.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:09
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
I wholeheartedly agree. Anyone who disagrees is doing a disservice to actual trans people who have fought tooth and nail to get where we are. Stop diminishing them.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:08
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Maybe that’s why they became a junkie. The whole situation is so sad.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:06
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Ugh. This trend bothers me so much on behalf of actual trans people who feel they were born the wrong sex. Is Demi aware that you can be gay and dress masculine and still be she/her? Does she know that to be a “woman” you don’t have to wear dresses and be 100% feminine? Most women aren’t like that anyway. There is such a misogynistic bent to this behavior, it disgusts me.
Anonymous
05/19/2021 14:06
Subject: Demi Lovato now they/them
Demi is a loser no matter her self identification. Stop giving her the time of day.