Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Middle class TV families from the 80s/90s would be recategorized as UMC families in 2021. Families Ties, Who’s the Boss, Growing Pains, My So Called Life, Life Goes On, Wonder Years etc.
Roseanne & Married with Children are exceptions.
But they were not presented to us as UMC in the 1980s and 1990s.
Were your parents doctors, lawyers, architects, small business owners, etc?
I think when you were younger you did not catch the distinction. You just saw them as families like yours. But they weren't.
Yes. They were.
Anonymous wrote:Or an apartment. That's what we did. We live in a 1200 sq ft apartment in the city. Two bedrooms, just one kid (not enough space for more!). It works for us -- city amenities, reasonable mortgage, home is in great shape and upgraded. If we wanted the kind of sitcom house you're talking about, we'd have to move to a suburb, probably not close in, and likely it would need a lot of updates.
I do think that one way to deal with our very real housing crisis in the country is to get more people okay with living in multi-family buildings, and also to build more multi-family housing that is actually for families. Our home was absolutely designed for a single person or a childless couple (like 90% of new condos). The assumption outside of NYC is that people with kids will live in a SFH. But it's not necessary. Families live in apartments all over the world and in most of the world, it's not considered a mark of poverty or like you are offering your kids less. One reason we have chosen to stay in the city is that we feel it offers our kid more opportunities than we could reach in a more distant suburb. Yes, we'd have a yard. But going to the park to play isn't that bad, and we also have lots of [free] museums, classes in almost anything you'd want within walking or a short ride on public transport. Plus tons of diversity of every kind so our kid is exposed to lots of different kinds of people, which s an education in and of itself.
I also remember lots of 80s shows in apartments and grew up assuming this was a normal way to live. My Two Dads, Perfect Strangers, and reruns of Laverne & Shirley and Mary Tyler Moore. Apartments can be a great place to raise a family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes, but I’m told I’m entitled for wanting a nice home with my good salary.
You can have it. You just can’t have it where you want it.
NP. The one thing that it took me so time to adjust to once I started earning relatively decent income is that basically everyone in this area makes about the same salary or within the same band.
If you want to live in a "nice" house in a nice area, you need to break out above that band. Right now I think its about the top of the GS-15 scale, so like $180k. It sounds crazy but dual income families making $325k are a dime a dozen around here.
But, if you can break out even a little bit above that scale you can too move into a nicer house. So the goal would be a $200k job. Even an amount as low as $20k per year makes a huge difference.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Middle class TV families from the 80s/90s would be recategorized as UMC families in 2021. Families Ties, Who’s the Boss, Growing Pains, My So Called Life, Life Goes On, Wonder Years etc.
Roseanne & Married with Children are exceptions.
But they were not presented to us as UMC in the 1980s and 1990s.
Were your parents doctors, lawyers, architects, small business owners, etc?
I think when you were younger you did not catch the distinction. You just saw them as families like yours. But they weren't.
Anonymous wrote:Didn’t Full House take place in SF?
Anonymous wrote:Middle class TV families from the 80s/90s would be recategorized as UMC families in 2021. Families Ties, Who’s the Boss, Growing Pains, My So Called Life, Life Goes On, Wonder Years etc.
Roseanne & Married with Children are exceptions.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Middle class TV families from the 80s/90s would be recategorized as UMC families in 2021. Families Ties, Who’s the Boss, Growing Pains, My So Called Life, Life Goes On, Wonder Years etc.
Roseanne & Married with Children are exceptions.
But they were not presented to us as UMC in the 1980s and 1990s.
Were your parents doctors, lawyers, architects, small business owners, etc?
I think when you were younger you did not catch the distinction. You just saw them as families like yours. But they weren't.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:TV housing has never reflected financial reality. It’s no more realistic than Elsa’s ice castle.
Seriously. How many struggling young writers/architects/etc on TV live in fabulous apartments in NY? Sex and the City was realistic? Remember the movie Broadcast News? I know the person who actually lived the house they used to film Holly Hunter’s place, and they made a LOT more money than her character would have.