Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is this level of involvement/knowledge normal? I'm not trying to be snarky, I'm genuinely curious. My oldest is a college freshman (and my younger is in 8th grade). I knew what her GPA was, and that she was much more into math and science, and I knew what she got on the ACT. But I definitely wouldn't be able to rattle off that that she got "4As, and a B+ in an AP" that "skewed her GPA" or the exact number of APs she took and her scores. Or what lab sciences she took.
I am with you on the gist, but you really wouldn’t know what lab sciences your kid took? My kids took bio, chem and physics- just like spouse and I did so it really required no sleuthing on my part. And they both took/are taking APES senior year. To me this is as basic as knowing they take spanish not french. I think it would be kind of weird to not know your kid’s school schedule. Do you never discuss school? We discuss school and work at dinner each night.
I think we should all admit that if we’re on this site we’re not remotely “normal” when it comes to college choice. But yes, knowing all the classes and grades is a category of its own.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is this level of involvement/knowledge normal? I'm not trying to be snarky, I'm genuinely curious. My oldest is a college freshman (and my younger is in 8th grade). I knew what her GPA was, and that she was much more into math and science, and I knew what she got on the ACT. But I definitely wouldn't be able to rattle off that that she got "4As, and a B+ in an AP" that "skewed her GPA" or the exact number of APs she took and her scores. Or what lab sciences she took.
I am with you on the gist, but you really wouldn’t know what lab sciences your kid took? My kids took bio, chem and physics- just like spouse and I did so it really required no sleuthing on my part. And they both took/are taking APES senior year. To me this is as basic as knowing they take spanish not french. I think it would be kind of weird to not know your kid’s school schedule. Do you never discuss school? We discuss school and work at dinner each night.
Anonymous wrote:Is this level of involvement/knowledge normal? I'm not trying to be snarky, I'm genuinely curious. My oldest is a college freshman (and my younger is in 8th grade). I knew what her GPA was, and that she was much more into math and science, and I knew what she got on the ACT. But I definitely wouldn't be able to rattle off that that she got "4As, and a B+ in an AP" that "skewed her GPA" or the exact number of APs she took and her scores. Or what lab sciences she took.
Anonymous wrote:FWIW everyone I know at Carleton is rich and from NYC—it’s in the Midwest but I’m not sure how different it really would be from a Middlebury.
Anonymous wrote:Is this level of involvement/knowledge normal? I'm not trying to be snarky, I'm genuinely curious. My oldest is a college freshman (and my younger is in 8th grade). I knew what her GPA was, and that she was much more into math and science, and I knew what she got on the ACT. But I definitely wouldn't be able to rattle off that that she got "4As, and a B+ in an AP" that "skewed her GPA" or the exact number of APs she took and her scores. Or what lab sciences she took.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have heard terrible reviews of the W&M/St. A program. Please do your research before applying.
Ideally, she will get top grades this year and have a chance to visit schools in person. There is a big difference in location between the VT/ME schools and Boston schools. Does she want to be close to or in a city, or would she be fine in a more isolated setting?
She’s concerned about being too isolated. I love Kenyon. We visited with her sibling and It’s too isolated for her. Macalester and Carleton/ St. Olaf appeal because they aren’t super urban, but are suburban (Mac) or cute town can shuttle into city. I visited these schools with her sibling (not her) and I think they are what she is going for. But, we are going to wait until early fall to visit to give her the best view of campus possible. In the meantime, spring break is getting he at Vasser, Hamilton, a tufts, Middlebury and seeing what she things. BC and NE seem like good compare and contrast things.
And yes, I’m overthinking. But this process was so much easier with kid 1. This kid has a strong sense of what she wants. And translating “not Lax Bro feel” to virtual visit is tough. Hence hive mind. Our ability to really get a good feel is limited. I was hoping for feedback.
But yes, hunting for SLACs during COVID is a mess.
And, it’s a lot of factors. But, I hate in when people post “smart kids, top scores, good grades and ECs, likes science”. I did the SLAC search once.
I agree, OP. SLACs are all about fit and it's really hard to discern that without visiting. We also looked only a LACs that offered merit due to financial considerations. However, also looking back, there were really only two other LACs we would have put on our list if financial considerations weren't an issue. We also felt that many of them had a wealthy feel to them. We focused on the midwestern schools that we felt were a better fit and I don't think that would have changed even if money weren't a consideration.
Ditto. What two would you add? From a distance, it seems like Vasser, Carleton and maybe Hamilton.
It’s hard to get a sense of the students from a campus with no tour and no kids. And, even schools in the city are often dead.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, seriously consider Wesleyan in CT. It’s a bit larger for SLACs. My daughter applied to a couple of the schools you referenced and ended up going to Wesleyan.
Not on our radar. Can you tell me more about why you think it’s a good fit?
Anonymous wrote:FWIW everyone I know at Carleton is rich and from NYC—it’s in the Midwest but I’m not sure how different it really would be from a Middlebury.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:FWIW everyone I know at Carleton is rich and from NYC—it’s in the Midwest but I’m not sure how different it really would be from a Middlebury.
Median family income at Carleton: $172,400. 68% are from top 20% of earners.
This is right below W&M ($176,400), Johns Hopkins ($177,300), Oberlin ($178,000), Tulane ($180,700) and George Washington ($182,200), and right above Northwestern ($171,200), Holy Cross ($170,700), Haverford ($168,700), Lehigh ($167,600), and Pomona ($166,500).
By comparison, median family income at Middlebury is $244,300, and 76% come from the top 20% of earners. (And Middlebury has more students from the top 1% than from the bottom 60%.)
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/projects/college-mobility/
I’m the op of a separate Middlebury thread and this is very useful, thank you!