Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 08:13     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you accidentally lock a deadbolt that requires a key?


Because the cat has decided to start sneaking in and finding a spot to nap while I was getting ready for work. This is something new so I didn’t think I needed to check before I locked the French door. Of course now I know I need to start checking for cats! Ive had a house broken into in my life and it’s very traumatic losing family valuables that are irreplaceable. My DH doesn’t think the same way and leaves his valuables laying around. His attitude is no big deal I’ll just file an insurance claim. It was a total mishap on my part but he was acting like I did it on purpose and sent me a few expletive texts in the midsts of an extremely hectic work day. My office is just 10 mts away and I told him to come grab my key but he decided he’d rather just make me feel horrible instead. To top it off my boss came in and was hovering over me which had me even more stressed plus I had to stay a hr late. If my boss wasn’t there I would’ve stopped answering the phones and hightailed it home at our closing time.

Could you tell us three or four more times what kind of doors you have on your closet?


Because the doors have glass so the cat wasn’t in a dark closet frightened to death. I think I need to post this on wealthy people problems. com. Poor people just don’t get it not to mention the envy horns come out real fast.


I'm fairly certain that no one who has read your post envies you in the slightest.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 08:11     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
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You must understand that this is a closet humblebrag post and needs to be moved to Home Improvement.

OP has hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of valuables in her Kardashian closet, people! She needs the deadbolt, cat be d@mned!

The husband is just another frivolous expenditure, since he doesn't work, right, OP? Do you spend more on his keep than the cat's? Does he get luxury raw food as well? Do you provide sufficient enrichment such as golf? Because otherwise he's going to end up just like the cat in that closet...








Haha he’s the one with the money sweetheart!


He can’t have that much money if you have to work a job where your boss stands over you and makes you work late. Troll fail.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 08:07     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
OP, it's really easy to make fun of your studio apartment sized closet with the fancy doors, so I'm only going to do that a little bit. Your husband's texts at least as you present them, sound inappropriate; swearing at your partner is always a red flag for me and doing it repeatedly when he could have come and got the keys would be a problem for me if I were you. On the other hand, you're really lacking empathy to someone who heard an animal in distress and reacted to it. Combine that with the fact that you're unwilling, here, even to consider the possibility that you were in the wrong, and I feel pretty confident that you both screwed up here. Apologize and try to be better in the future. Also consider having fewer luxury goods, it seems genuinely bad for your mental health.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 08:03     Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, I can’t get over a deadbolt on a closet door. Unless you got a luxury yacht or something in there.
I’m so glad I’m poor.


It’s also fairly pointless unless OP has reinforced French doors with no glass in them.


+1,000 Why doesn't OP's lazy DH get it? I am sure anyone who breaks into their posh home will be stopped by a deadlock on a glass door. Just wow to this logic


Actually it’s more for the random people in and out doing repairs, cleaning, etc. We had our ac recently serviced and there is one air handler in my closet so I had to leave it unlocked. I have a camera in there and later when I checked the video the repair tech was literally snooping thru my drawers! And also taking pics. Luckily he didn’t take anything. My DH told me not to say anything to him and that we just won’t use him again.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 08:00     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
I hope you're a troll otherwise you sound like a piece of work. I feel bad for your husband and cat.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:55     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:So if I lock my cat in my regular, not luxury closet...would that be abusive?


Only if it was intentional.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:54     Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, I can’t get over a deadbolt on a closet door. Unless you got a luxury yacht or something in there.
I’m so glad I’m poor.


It’s also fairly pointless unless OP has reinforced French doors with no glass in them.


+1,000 Why doesn't OP's lazy DH get it? I am sure anyone who breaks into their posh home will be stopped by a deadlock on a glass door. Just wow to this logic
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:53     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you accidentally lock a deadbolt that requires a key?


Because the cat has decided to start sneaking in and finding a spot to nap while I was getting ready for work. This is something new so I didn’t think I needed to check before I locked the French door. Of course now I know I need to start checking for cats! Ive had a house broken into in my life and it’s very traumatic losing family valuables that are irreplaceable. My DH doesn’t think the same way and leaves his valuables laying around. His attitude is no big deal I’ll just file an insurance claim. It was a total mishap on my part but he was acting like I did it on purpose and sent me a few expletive texts in the midsts of an extremely hectic work day. My office is just 10 mts away and I told him to come grab my key but he decided he’d rather just make me feel horrible instead. To top it off my boss came in and was hovering over me which had me even more stressed plus I had to stay a hr late. If my boss wasn’t there I would’ve stopped answering the phones and hightailed it home at our closing time.

Could you tell us three or four more times what kind of doors you have on your closet?


Because the doors have glass so the cat wasn’t in a dark closet frightened to death. I think I need to post this on wealthy people problems. com. Poor people just don’t get it not to mention the envy horns come out real fast.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:50     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
So if I lock my cat in my regular, not luxury closet...would that be abusive?
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:47     Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:to be clear, you think leaving an animal without food, water, or access to (what they have been trained to use as) bathroom is OK?



She was already fed Sherlock and was 2 hrs late for her dinner. Locked in a huge LUXURY closet and like I said the worst thing that could’ve happened is she peed in there. Fyi my cats don’t drink much water because they’re also on a luxury raw food diet I provide which contains 50% water. Google it.


NP. I was with you until this post. No need for the attitude to PP. S/he was more concerned about your cat than you were.


This exactly. You sound like a peach.


+1

Why did it take so little to make you become nasty, OP? You sound strange.


I don’t get how people write a long post, leaving out details and become rude when someone asked a question of draws conclusions.

This is in “pets” so figured you wanted feedback on the state of the cat, not for us to infer about your closet or relationship with your unmotivated DH.

Also you asked a question, presumably to get others’ opinion, but Doesn’t seem like you want it. You’ve made up your mind. You’re right OP. The rest of us can’t relate! You sound like a hateful person.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:35     Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, I can’t get over a deadbolt on a closet door. Unless you got a luxury yacht or something in there.
I’m so glad I’m poor.


It’s also fairly pointless unless OP has reinforced French doors with no glass in them.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:34     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you accidentally lock a deadbolt that requires a key?


Because the cat has decided to start sneaking in and finding a spot to nap while I was getting ready for work. This is something new so I didn’t think I needed to check before I locked the French door. Of course now I know I need to start checking for cats! Ive had a house broken into in my life and it’s very traumatic losing family valuables that are irreplaceable. My DH doesn’t think the same way and leaves his valuables laying around. His attitude is no big deal I’ll just file an insurance claim. It was a total mishap on my part but he was acting like I did it on purpose and sent me a few expletive texts in the midsts of an extremely hectic work day. My office is just 10 mts away and I told him to come grab my key but he decided he’d rather just make me feel horrible instead. To top it off my boss came in and was hovering over me which had me even more stressed plus I had to stay a hr late. If my boss wasn’t there I would’ve stopped answering the phones and hightailed it home at our closing time.

Could you tell us three or four more times what kind of doors you have on your closet?


They are LUXURY. What don’t you get about LUXURY?? /s
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:30     Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
I’m sorry, I can’t get over a deadbolt on a closet door. Unless you got a luxury yacht or something in there.
I’m so glad I’m poor.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:26     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you accidentally lock a deadbolt that requires a key?


Because the cat has decided to start sneaking in and finding a spot to nap while I was getting ready for work. This is something new so I didn’t think I needed to check before I locked the French door. Of course now I know I need to start checking for cats! Ive had a house broken into in my life and it’s very traumatic losing family valuables that are irreplaceable. My DH doesn’t think the same way and leaves his valuables laying around. His attitude is no big deal I’ll just file an insurance claim. It was a total mishap on my part but he was acting like I did it on purpose and sent me a few expletive texts in the midsts of an extremely hectic work day. My office is just 10 mts away and I told him to come grab my key but he decided he’d rather just make me feel horrible instead. To top it off my boss came in and was hovering over me which had me even more stressed plus I had to stay a hr late. If my boss wasn’t there I would’ve stopped answering the phones and hightailed it home at our closing time.

Could you tell us three or four more times what kind of doors you have on your closet?
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2021 07:13     Subject: DH being super dramatic?
LOL! The cat was mowing so it was clearly unhappy!
My cat mowed and tried to rip the pantry door to get to her food!
She wanted it that second, it took me no time at all to open it for her! She acted like she was dying of hunger! She ate an hour before.