Anonymous wrote:Maybe 100 times? Less if you count PIV. Then maybe 45.

What is PIV?

I got divorced in 2020. But years 2013-2020 were 0 times.
Years 2011-2013 was 1 time. Earlier years...less than 5 times a year.

I am jealous of everyone here who has had a decent sex life in marriage.

With boyfriends before, it was every single day.

45-50, I’d estimate. We aim for once a week, but it’s harder with a teen in the house all day. And H’s drive seems to be diminishing with age (59).

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Anonymous wrote:Over a hundred times for sure. Isn’t twice per week the standard?

Nope, it’s once per week.

Maybe if you are 80 years old

Maybe 20? Kids home and around all the time really did not work out well for us.

Anonymous wrote:Over a hundred times for sure. Isn’t twice per week the standard?

Nope, it’s once per week.

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Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

Gawd I can’t believe people live like this and act like it’s okay.

I know right? 8 times in a entire year is not ok!

If it’s okay with both partners it’s okay! Some people have really low sex drives.

Over a hundred times for sure. Isn’t twice per week the standard?

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Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

Living a double life is stressful. Worrying guy will get caught abs covering your tracks and the moral dilemma and self-hate you need to suppress.

All women get needy and want more and put pressure on eventually. Then you are juggling a ticking time bomb.

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Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

Gawd I can’t believe people live like this and act like it’s okay.

I know right? 8 times in a entire year is not ok!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

Gawd I can’t believe people live like this and act like it’s okay.

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Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.

He's doing it wrong if sex with his girlfriend is stressful. Agree there is work involved with any girlfriend, but having a platonic room mate wife frees up all his romantic energy to be invested in girlfriends.

About 120, given our average. We are 47(W) and 42(H).

Maybe 10

Anonymous wrote:45 years old, about 8 times. She is fine with it, I am depression and want to divorce but I love my kids too much.

And before open marriage poster asks, I tried the girlfriend thing and it's too stressful. I want a real marriage.

Yeah, men forget girlfriends are work. You have to maintain your hygiene abs make an effort at foreplay and feigning interest in someone else’s life. Nothing easier than a wife.