Anonymous wrote:After just a few months affirmation love language sounds like a title to a terrible Lifetime movie. Yuck, there are so many other ways of showing affection other than "affirmative love language" whatever that is. My BF and now husband of many years was/is a man of few words but he has a way of looking and smiling at me that says everything I need to hear. If I mentioned "affirmative love language" to him he would barf.