Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 21:44     Subject: Re:What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Anonymous wrote:My dad used to always say "Learn to Leave"

Is your childhood friend actually a liar who only cares about herself? Don't speak to her anymore!
Is your boyfriend unfaithful and rude to his mom? Dump him!
Is your boss a racist and expects way too much from you for the little pay you receive? Find a new job!

This has been my mindset for years and I am happier than ever. Of course, many people do not have the privilege of moving or changing jobs, so there are a lot of caveats. But if you have the chance to leave a bad situation or remove someone toxic from your life, do it. Its hard because we crave stability and long-term connections, but if someone/something is dragging you down, its best to cut it off.


I think this is incredibly important. It took me a long time to realize this. Will teach it to my children as they grow up.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 21:34     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Anonymous wrote:Leap and the net will appear. This advice alone is the reason I am good when taking risks.


I love this. Thank you for sharing.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 18:15     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
One spouse, one house.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 17:43     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Anonymous wrote:Share it please.


Three:

And this too shall pass.

Forgiveness is a gift to yourself.

Living well is the best revenge.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 17:38     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
The opposite of scarcity is not abundance but generosity. --Archbishop Elpidophoros
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 17:35     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
"Live so that when your children think of fairness, caring, and integrity, they think of you." H. Jackson Brown, Jr.


Psalm 90:12 " . . . teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom."

Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 17:18     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Anonymous wrote:Meditation you are in control of your happiness.


+1. Whenever I've gone through a tough time, I've turned to meditation. Not trying to be an advertisement, but Deepak Chopra's 21 day free meditations changed my life. They gave me a totally new perspective on every difficulty I've ever faced.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 17:16     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Don't make a choice because everyone says it's what you're "supposed" to do.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 17:13     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Be of service to others
Live purposefully
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 16:45     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Anonymous wrote:Don’t compare yourself to other people.


+1

Stay in your lane, and don't spend time worrying about what other people have and do not have, even though that is the DCUM way!
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 16:23     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Anonymous wrote:Leap and the net will appear. This advice alone is the reason I am good when taking risks.


I like this one! I needed a good way to wrap my head around jumping into the uncertain. Thank you!
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 16:23     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
don't sweat the small stuff.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 16:17     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The only thing that matters is money. Happiness doesn’t exist stop trying to be happy. It should be illegal to be happy.


Wow, this is the only advice I've read on this thread that I think is absolutely terrible.


Yeah, what a way to be miserable.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 16:03     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Don't let the fact that you can only do a little stop you from doing anything at all.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2020 15:53     Subject: What's the best advice you've ever gotten about living a good life?
Anonymous wrote:The only thing that matters is money. Happiness doesn’t exist stop trying to be happy. It should be illegal to be happy.


Wow, this is the only advice I've read on this thread that I think is absolutely terrible.