Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 16:56     Subject: Major crush on boss
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Has he been married before


Yes.


How many times? Why did each end? How does he speak about his ex? The answers to these will likwly halp end your crush... if they don't do the obvious thing and stop going to lunch and happy hour with him alone. If you have to go out with a group , ( unlikely given the pandemic, and numbers rising) leave early, heck you can use numbers being on the rise again as an excuse, you want to limit your risk as much as possible.







I tried the crappy husband/dad line of thought. Turns out (at least from what he has told me) that isn’t the case. I’m inclined to believe him based on what I have observed.

Also, I was hoping he was a republican (very possible given his background). That is dealbreaker for me. It was a big surprise when we started talking politics and I learned that was definitely not the case.


So it was all her fault? ... Pass op.


No, didn’t say that at all. Sounds like it was pretty mutual and they both tried to save the marriage, but it just wasn’t working. They get along and co-parent well.
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 16:50     Subject: Major crush on boss
has he been inside of you yet?
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 16:40     Subject: Major crush on boss
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Has he been married before


Yes.


How many times? Why did each end? How does he speak about his ex? The answers to these will likwly halp end your crush... if they don't do the obvious thing and stop going to lunch and happy hour with him alone. If you have to go out with a group , ( unlikely given the pandemic, and numbers rising) leave early, heck you can use numbers being on the rise again as an excuse, you want to limit your risk as much as possible.







I tried the crappy husband/dad line of thought. Turns out (at least from what he has told me) that isn’t the case. I’m inclined to believe him based on what I have observed.

Also, I was hoping he was a republican (very possible given his background). That is dealbreaker for me. It was a big surprise when we started talking politics and I learned that was definitely not the case.


So it was all her fault? ... Pass op.
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 15:17     Subject: Major crush on boss
Had he been never married and childless, then game on.

But banging your divorced boss is never a good idea.
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 15:02     Subject: Major crush on boss
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:BIG strike against him if he's been married before. You can do better.


+1


People can’t win. In another thread, we both have serious issues because we are 35+ and single.
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 14:40     Subject: Major crush on boss
Anonymous wrote:BIG strike against him if he's been married before. You can do better.


+1
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 14:37     Subject: Major crush on boss
BIG strike against him if he's been married before. You can do better.
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 13:15     Subject: Major crush on boss
How long have you been working for him?

Is he newly divorced?
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 13:12     Subject: Major crush on boss
Anonymous wrote:Don't *** where you work.

Is he married.

Shut this down immediately. If he likes you he can ask you out like a normal person.


Reading comprehension - she says he is single.

So long as they act like grown ups they can do it.
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 13:00     Subject: Major crush on boss
Does he have kids from first marriage? If yes, and you are never divorced, no kids OP, skip him.
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 12:11     Subject: Major crush on boss
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Has he been married before


Yes.


How many times? Why did each end? How does he speak about his ex? The answers to these will likwly halp end your crush... if they don't do the obvious thing and stop going to lunch and happy hour with him alone. If you have to go out with a group , ( unlikely given the pandemic, and numbers rising) leave early, heck you can use numbers being on the rise again as an excuse, you want to limit your risk as much as possible.







I tried the crappy husband/dad line of thought. Turns out (at least from what he has told me) that isn’t the case. I’m inclined to believe him based on what I have observed.

Also, I was hoping he was a republican (very possible given his background). That is dealbreaker for me. It was a big surprise when we started talking politics and I learned that was definitely not the case.
Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 09:20     Subject: Major crush on boss
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Has he been married before


Yes.


How many times? Why did each end? How does he speak about his ex? The answers to these will likwly halp end your crush... if they don't do the obvious thing and stop going to lunch and happy hour with him alone. If you have to go out with a group , ( unlikely given the pandemic, and numbers rising) leave early, heck you can use numbers being on the rise again as an excuse, you want to limit your risk as much as possible.




Anonymous
Post 10/17/2020 08:57     Subject: Major crush on boss
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Has he been married before


Yes.


Did she work for him too?
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2020 23:07     Subject: Major crush on boss
I would just let it go. Take distance. Reassess at some less lonely time. With the pandemic everyone is getting a bit loopy from not seeing anyone. It could just be in your head.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2020 23:03     Subject: Major crush on boss
Agreed. He is no longer worth it. Not worth the risk.