Anonymous wrote:We are moving one of our kids after Fall season, not mid-season but mid-year. I feel that is fair.
He has outgrown the Club and the team and it has been painfully obvious the last tournament and the last two games.
They also stunted his player development by never putting him in any position, but one. This was U10-U12. 3 years. He's now U13. This was repeatedly brought up to them by player..and eventually us. They consider him 'clutch' in this one place and it has severely stunted his individual development. When he arrived they went on and on about how versatile a player he was and how he was excellent anywhere on the field...and then after 2 games they never moved him. He's a starter and plays whole game---but team is crumbling and he would be better served elsewhere.
Commute was also long so makes sense to go. We stayed because of the 'no tryout' thing last Spring, but I wish we had moved him before the season started. We are on really good terms so I think they will release his player card mid-season no problem.
I think that's fair, PP. IMO your main gripe should be they are not developing your child as promised by keeping him in one position. It sounds like the current team might be okay if not ideal if your child was able to move around positions. Have you spoken with the coach? Also a lot of team in our area are crumbling as you say. Kids are depressed and can't be as active as they want to be. They are sitting in front of a computer all and who knows what that's doing to their bodies but it's not good. Some kids or family members are getting sick and have to be out of training for a while. Maybe they aren't even sick but need to quarantine. They may have lost family members. I wouldn't judge based on this season. There are also a number of kids sitting out until we get a vaccine. Once they come back many will come back to their old teams and probably pick right back up.