I remember being 25 and seeing a woman in her mid to late 40s or 50s in the waiting room. So as others said you definitely aren't the oldest!

Anonymous wrote:I think it is fine, but look at it in the long run, if your kid will have a kid at 38, you'll be in your mid 70s, and you might not be able to help them. I think 40 is old personally. I think the women who are 40 are just saying that they aren't tired to feel better.

Then don't have a kid at 40, but when other people say they don't feel any more tired at 40 than they did at 30, you can't make up stuff like "you're just saying that to feel better" because you don't have any personal experience in the matter. Some people take better care of themselves and have tons of energy at 40 and older.

I think it is fine, but look at it in the long run, if your kid will have a kid at 38, you'll be in your mid 70s, and you might not be able to help them. I think 40 is old personally. I think the women who are 40 are just saying that they aren't tired to feel better.

Comparison is the thief of joy. Accept and embrace where you are in life and enjoy your pregnancy.

Anonymous wrote:I am sorry, but I think 36 is fine.

I think 38 is old. Imagine being 40 and running around with a newborn. You're going to be tired all the time.

Many women do it all the time with no issues. You sound weak or easily fatigued.

Anonymous wrote:I am sorry, but I think 36 is fine.

I think 38 is old. Imagine being 40 and running around with a newborn. You're going to be tired all the time.

I generally agree with this too.

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Anonymous wrote:I had my first at 29 and people in DC treated me like a teen mom. You are totally average for the area. Congratulations on your pregnancy!

First at 28, and same. Pregnant with my second now at 32 and everyone who doesn't know me assumes it's my first!

Get over yourself. Everyone assumes a pregnant lady is having her first. Has anyone ever been asked “is this your third?”

I would love to have a 4th. I am 41. I feel like I have more energy now than I did at 30 with my first. In much better shape, eating healthier.

Anonymous wrote:I had my first at 29 and people in DC treated me like a teen mom. You are totally average for the area. Congratulations on your pregnancy!

First at 28, and same. Pregnant with my second now at 32 and everyone who doesn't know me assumes it's my first!

Anonymous wrote:I am sorry, but I think 36 is fine.

I think 38 is old. Imagine being 40 and running around with a newborn. You're going to be tired all the time.

you’re not going to have a newborn at 40 if the kid was born at 38. Not everyone is a tired mess in their 40’s btw.

Anonymous wrote:I am sorry, but I think 36 is fine.

I think 38 is old. Imagine being 40 and running around with a newborn. You're going to be tired all the time.

Well, I am nearly 42 with a newborn and less tired now than I was with a newborn at 37. People’s experiences are different. Babies are different.

Anonymous wrote:I am sorry, but I think 36 is fine.

I think 38 is old. Imagine being 40 and running around with a newborn. You're going to be tired all the time.

If you're 40 and tire out that easily you need to speak to your doctor.

Anonymous wrote:I am sorry, but I think 36 is fine.

I think 38 is old. Imagine being 40 and running around with a newborn. You're going to be tired all the time.

Is this based on your own experience, or are you in the habit of making baseless generalizations like this without any evidence?

I am sorry, but I think 36 is fine.

I think 38 is old. Imagine being 40 and running around with a newborn. You're going to be tired all the time.

Hah, when I was angsting about this (exact same age as you when had first), my therapist said something like "the average age of women delivering at Sibley is 38, chill."