Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:55     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Anonymous wrote:craigslist, 2008.

hahahahaaaaaaaa. this was before everyone had a smart phone and dating apps. oh man, DC was a different time then.

we're happily married with 1 son.


Also met on craigslist but in 2007...married a couple years later. Divorced after 10 years.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:55     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

a mutual friend set us up together!
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:54     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

We were set up by a mutual friend and emailed back and forth for a few weeks before meeting in person for dinner. I loved (still love) his writing. I scared he would disappoint me in person. He didn't.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:49     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Through our respective childhood friends! My childhood friend married his childhood friend. I'd like to say we met at their wedding, but we met at their engagement party and although we were both in the wedding, I had a serious boyfriend who was my date.

The week that that relationship ended, we went out on a double date. Dated for three years, engaged for 1. Married for 24 years.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:41     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Webster Hall NYC late 90s.

I agree with PPs, it isn't about where you meet, it's about having shared values. I would go futher and say it isn't about shared interests either, that helps, but it's also about each person's ability to be in a healthy relationship.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:41     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

We met in the dorms in college.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:40     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

At a bar in DC, married for 4 years.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:36     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Peace Corps.

He was an American man who didn't want to f@ck his female HS students, I was an American woman.


Unrelated to OP’s question, but do peace corps volunteers who Are teaching have sex with their high school students often? I guess I’m just naive, I had never heard about that.


Why, YES THEY DO. And then they go on to get federal jobs after bragging about getting an STI from a 15 year old! We all know about it, Mark!
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:32     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Anonymous wrote:College




+1
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:10     Subject: Re:People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Work — summer job in college
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:09     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Anonymous wrote:Peace Corps.

He was an American man who didn't want to f@ck his female HS students, I was an American woman.


Unrelated to OP’s question, but do peace corps volunteers who Are teaching have sex with their high school students often? I guess I’m just naive, I had never heard about that.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:05     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Peace Corps.

He was an American man who didn't want to f@ck his female HS students, I was an American woman.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:03     Subject: Re:People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Burning Man.

(I'm sorry. It has worked out nicely, though.)
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:01     Subject: Re:People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Grad school.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2020 16:00     Subject: People with good to great marriages, how did you meet your spouse?

Mutual friends.