Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 17:58     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
Anonymous wrote:I don't hide it now, but when we were first married I didn't know how to fight properly and was very passive aggressive.

Some of you may recall that I am the person who bedazzled the pockets and fly on DH's favorite jeans when I got angry at him.

Now that I have grown up (and we've gone to counseling and I learned how to productively argue) and a lot of time has passed, we can both laugh about it.


Lmao!!!
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 17:38     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
I don't hide it now, but when we were first married I didn't know how to fight properly and was very passive aggressive.

Some of you may recall that I am the person who bedazzled the pockets and fly on DH's favorite jeans when I got angry at him.

Now that I have grown up (and we've gone to counseling and I learned how to productively argue) and a lot of time has passed, we can both laugh about it.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 17:34     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
We have not had sex in 5 years
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 17:32     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
Anonymous wrote:There's nothing ugly we're hiding. What you see is what you get.

+1
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 16:51     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That DH has a love child he sees regularly.


Born during your marriage or prior??


During.

Sorry you have to deal with that.


Pp. do you have kids? If so- do they know they have a half sibling?
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 16:49     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
If it weren't for the great sex, I probably wouldn't be with her.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 16:14     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
That we are in bankruptcy, again, due to DH's refusal to budget or to say no to his family.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 15:28     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
On the outside, it looks like a functional, loving marriage; but the reality is that it's sexless.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 14:56     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
His addiction.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 14:41     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
He is overwhelmed with basic life with a family, job, house and lashes out in anger at anything asked of him.

Got diagnosed a couple years ago when things were really bad: ASd, bipolar, anxiety anger, depression.

We all just leave him alone now. He joins in when he’s up for it. It’s insulting, as are his chronic messes and setbacks. Bad days are really bad and I question if I should stay or fight back.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 14:38     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
I am as dysfunctional as fuk.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 14:29     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That DH has a love child he sees regularly.


Born during your marriage or prior??


During.

Sorry you have to deal with that.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 14:25     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That DH has a love child he sees regularly.


Born during your marriage or prior??


During.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 14:02     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
That some of his relatives are in prison, including his adult son who is only 17 years younger than he is.
Anonymous
Post 09/11/2020 13:56     Subject: What ugly things do you hide about your marriage?
His affair.