Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You "don't want someone else to have him"?

OP, you don't own this guy. He's an independent human being and the faster you realize that, the better. Regardless of whether he's an asshole - and yes, he sure does sound like one - don't imagine you can control ANYONE. That's what stalkers and abusers do.

+1 That's exactly why so many people think OJ is guilty. He said, if I can't have her, no one can. Get help, OP.

So what man? The guy is an abuser of women including the OP. The OP doesn't need help or snark from your critical ass. She needs SUPPORT. OP get your family or close relative involved for support or if you don't have any a best friend you can really trust to make your final decisions.

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Huh? How was that snark? The OP's feelings are seriously screwed up. She needs help. Would you not say the same thing if it were a man -- like OJ -- saying, if I can't have her, no one can? That's what OP is expressing.

OP: Okay, I don't think I own this person. I was just expressing that it's hard for me to envision his life with someone else... and mine without him. It's not something I want to feel.

You have a passionate volatile relationship that keeps you and him addicted. You love one another passionately in a way others who tell you to just move on and seek therapy wont understand. Its hard to break off and its likely one or both will be hurt by this and more likelu ylud get back togrther at some point if he doesnt get some floozy he dates pregnant.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You "don't want someone else to have him"?

OP, you don't own this guy. He's an independent human being and the faster you realize that, the better. Regardless of whether he's an asshole - and yes, he sure does sound like one - don't imagine you can control ANYONE. That's what stalkers and abusers do.

+1 That's exactly why so many people think OJ is guilty. He said, if I can't have her, no one can. Get help, OP.

So what man? The guy is an abuser of women including the OP. The OP doesn't need help or snark from your critical ass. She needs SUPPORT. OP get your family or close relative involved for support or if you don't have any a best friend you can really trust to make your final decisions.

is

Huh? How was that snark? The OP's feelings are seriously screwed up. She needs help. Would you not say the same thing if it were a man -- like OJ -- saying, if I can't have her, no one can? That's what OP is expressing.

OP: Okay, I don't think I own this person. I was just expressing that it's hard for me to envision his life with someone else... and mine without him. It's not something I want to feel.

I think 17:28 makes a really good point -- that how she saw her ex said more about her than it did about him. You need to figure these things out about yourself. Maybe you're addicted to drama and turmoil.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You "don't want someone else to have him"?

OP, you don't own this guy. He's an independent human being and the faster you realize that, the better. Regardless of whether he's an asshole - and yes, he sure does sound like one - don't imagine you can control ANYONE. That's what stalkers and abusers do.

+1 That's exactly why so many people think OJ is guilty. He said, if I can't have her, no one can. Get help, OP.

So what man? The guy is an abuser of women including the OP. The OP doesn't need help or snark from your critical ass. She needs SUPPORT. OP get your family or close relative involved for support or if you don't have any a best friend you can really trust to make your final decisions.

is

Huh? How was that snark? The OP's feelings are seriously screwed up. She needs help. Would you not say the same thing if it were a man -- like OJ -- saying, if I can't have her, no one can? That's what OP is expressing.

OP: Okay, I don't think I own this person. I was just expressing that it's hard for me to envision his life with someone else... and mine without him. It's not something I want to feel.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You "don't want someone else to have him"?

OP, you don't own this guy. He's an independent human being and the faster you realize that, the better. Regardless of whether he's an asshole - and yes, he sure does sound like one - don't imagine you can control ANYONE. That's what stalkers and abusers do.

+1 That's exactly why so many people think OJ is guilty. He said, if I can't have her, no one can. Get help, OP.

So what man? The guy is an abuser of women including the OP. The OP doesn't need help or snark from your critical ass. She needs SUPPORT. OP get your family or close relative involved for support or if you don't have any a best friend you can really trust to make your final decisions.

is

Huh? How was that snark? The OP's feelings are seriously screwed up. She needs help. Would you not say the same thing if it were a man -- like OJ -- saying, if I can't have her, no one can? That's what OP is expressing.

Go no contact. It's a peptide addiction.