Anonymous
07/23/2020 01:54
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Meanwhile I'm planning our trip to Disney.
Anonymous
07/23/2020 01:17
Subject: Re:How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Honestly, OP, you don’t know anyone who isn’t following strict precautions? I must know a bunch of rebels. I’m not condoning it, but you would be shocked at how many people are just going about like it was the summer of 2019.
Anonymous
07/23/2020 01:13
Subject: Re:How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
OP, I can’t tell if you’re trolling or don’t understand the epidemic or have anxiety or what, but this is absurd. No one wants restrictions indefinitely. The goal is to get the virus under control and then go back to life as normal. Like some countries have already accomplished and shown is possible. A vaccine will likely help too. I expect life to look much better by this time next year.
Anonymous
07/23/2020 01:08
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:OP you’re either trolling or need therapy
Not trolling. Just very concerned about her mental health when she finds out the things she's looking forward to aren't going to happen.
Anonymous
07/23/2020 01:07
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So... mine is 6 too. We talk about it a lot, but in a certain way. Factual but light...we set the tone, they adopt it. "yeah this might be one really weird school year! but one out of life isnt that bad right? at least we get to hang out!" "Its so awesome we have zoom to talk to grandpa during the germ problem, imagine if we didnt!" and I tell them we do not know if a vaccine will come for years, but, the scientists are working and will probably find some good treatments and things will ease up in a year. We have sprinkled these comments throughout the last few months adn it has helped. At first they thought it would be better by summer, but now they know its taking longer and we all just float on.
Problem is, DH is telling her we can go see people next summer without masks. This is super irresponsible since we all know the restrictions won't ever be lifted, but I'm the one who'll get to comfort a crying child when she finds out he lied, so what does he care?
They won’t EVER be lifted? Op you sound dramatic and pathetic, get a grip!
Huh? How am I being dramatic and pathetic? Voters don't WANT them lifted. Shoppers don't WANT them lifted. My friends are all freaking. New normal, remember?
Anonymous
07/23/2020 01:05
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
OP you’re either trolling or need therapy
Anonymous
07/23/2020 01:02
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So... mine is 6 too. We talk about it a lot, but in a certain way. Factual but light...we set the tone, they adopt it. "yeah this might be one really weird school year! but one out of life isnt that bad right? at least we get to hang out!" "Its so awesome we have zoom to talk to grandpa during the germ problem, imagine if we didnt!" and I tell them we do not know if a vaccine will come for years, but, the scientists are working and will probably find some good treatments and things will ease up in a year. We have sprinkled these comments throughout the last few months adn it has helped. At first they thought it would be better by summer, but now they know its taking longer and we all just float on.
Problem is, DH is telling her we can go see people next summer without masks. This is super irresponsible since we all know the restrictions won't ever be lifted, but I'm the one who'll get to comfort a crying child when she finds out he lied, so what does he care?
They won’t EVER be lifted? Op you sound dramatic and pathetic, get a grip!
Anonymous
07/23/2020 01:01
Subject: Re:How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
I know probably dozens of people not strictly following precautions, they only wear masks when asked to in stores. The ages range from children to elderly, and have been socializing with multiple small groups of family/friends, having playdates, going on vacations, having barbecues, and on and on....
Anonymous
07/23/2020 00:57
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD (6) thinks things will go back to normal soon. She obviously can't grasp the full impact of the situation yet, and thinks that one day she'll be able to see her grandparents, not a wear a mask, travel, hug friends, attend school. I've been very non-committal about the future because I don't want to negatively affect her mental health, but at some point she'll need to understand that things are different now and won't ever go back. I'm actually wondering if I'm doing her a disservice by putting it off, but I'm dreading it.
Anyway, how and when do you plan on having this conversation?
Listen - and I'm not being ironic here - you need help. Do you have a therapist you can talk to?
People freaking WILL (and some still do!) hug friends, attend school (some privates will be open as soon as this August), travel, and even ditch masks, eventually. A year from now, everything will be back to normal.
Reading some posts here, you'd think an asteroid hit the Earth and the surviving 50 humans all frequent DCUM. "Things are different now and won't ever go back". Geez.
Interesting. You've not heard the term "new normal" either? And you do realize the government never drops restrictions they institute, right?
I think you should go back to your social studies class. Seriously.
I keep forgetting people who don't remember 9/11 are old enough to have kids now.
What are you talking about?! OP isn't talking about never being able to drop someone off at the gate in an airport again. She is literally saying that her 6 y.o. DD will never "hug friends", "attend school", or "travel" again! That is flat out insane!
New normal.
Anonymous
07/23/2020 00:55
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD (6) thinks things will go back to normal soon. She obviously can't grasp the full impact of the situation yet, and thinks that one day she'll be able to see her grandparents, not a wear a mask, travel, hug friends, attend school. I've been very non-committal about the future because I don't want to negatively affect her mental health, but at some point she'll need to understand that things are different now and won't ever go back. I'm actually wondering if I'm doing her a disservice by putting it off, but I'm dreading it.
Anyway, how and when do you plan on having this conversation?
Listen - and I'm not being ironic here - you need help. Do you have a therapist you can talk to?
People freaking WILL (and some still do!) hug friends, attend school (some privates will be open as soon as this August), travel, and even ditch masks, eventually. A year from now, everything will be back to normal.
Reading some posts here, you'd think an asteroid hit the Earth and the surviving 50 humans all frequent DCUM. "Things are different now and won't ever go back". Geez.
Interesting. You've not heard the term "new normal" either? And you do realize the government never drops restrictions they institute, right?
I think you should go back to your social studies class. Seriously.
I keep forgetting people who don't remember 9/11 are old enough to have kids now.
What are you talking about?! OP isn't talking about never being able to drop someone off at the gate in an airport again. She is literally saying that her 6 y.o. DD will never "hug friends", "attend school", or "travel" again! That is flat out insane!
Anonymous
07/23/2020 00:55
Subject: Re:How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
PP wear masks not were masks
Anonymous
07/23/2020 00:54
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD (6) thinks things will go back to normal soon. She obviously can't grasp the full impact of the situation yet, and thinks that one day she'll be able to see her grandparents, not a wear a mask, travel, hug friends, attend school. I've been very non-committal about the future because I don't want to negatively affect her mental health, but at some point she'll need to understand that things are different now and won't ever go back. I'm actually wondering if I'm doing her a disservice by putting it off, but I'm dreading it.
Anyway, how and when do you plan on having this conversation?
Listen - and I'm not being ironic here - you need help. Do you have a therapist you can talk to?
People freaking WILL (and some still do!) hug friends, attend school (some privates will be open as soon as this August), travel, and even ditch masks, eventually. A year from now, everything will be back to normal.
Reading some posts here, you'd think an asteroid hit the Earth and the surviving 50 humans all frequent DCUM. "Things are different now and won't ever go back". Geez.
Interesting. You've not heard the term "new normal" either? And you do realize the government never drops restrictions they institute, right?
People are going to begin ignoring the “new normal”. Yes, they may were masks when required in stores, but that’s about it for following precautions. I know many people who are doing exactly this right now, and pretty much have been since the “new normal” began.
Anonymous
07/23/2020 00:42
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD (6) thinks things will go back to normal soon. She obviously can't grasp the full impact of the situation yet, and thinks that one day she'll be able to see her grandparents, not a wear a mask, travel, hug friends, attend school. I've been very non-committal about the future because I don't want to negatively affect her mental health, but at some point she'll need to understand that things are different now and won't ever go back. I'm actually wondering if I'm doing her a disservice by putting it off, but I'm dreading it.
Anyway, how and when do you plan on having this conversation?
Listen - and I'm not being ironic here - you need help. Do you have a therapist you can talk to?
People freaking WILL (and some still do!) hug friends, attend school (some privates will be open as soon as this August), travel, and even ditch masks, eventually. A year from now, everything will be back to normal.
Reading some posts here, you'd think an asteroid hit the Earth and the surviving 50 humans all frequent DCUM. "Things are different now and won't ever go back". Geez.
Interesting. You've not heard the term "new normal" either? And you do realize the government never drops restrictions they institute, right?
What? Is this the alternative reality thread? You think that the US will have a permanent mask ordinance (like for the rest of a 6 y.o.'s lifetime) and that no one will ever travel again? I'm pretty conservative w.r.t. Covid-19, and I pretty much agree with the DL decisions (even though I don't like them). But I don't think that the rest of life is going to be like some sort of post-apocalyptic disaster movie or anything.
No, I honestly believe most people are so frightened that they don't WANT to go back to how things are. Maybe that's just my friends and DCUM, but yeah. Things like a permanent mask ordinance and forced vaccination is what they want.
Anonymous
07/23/2020 00:40
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD (6) thinks things will go back to normal soon. She obviously can't grasp the full impact of the situation yet, and thinks that one day she'll be able to see her grandparents, not a wear a mask, travel, hug friends, attend school. I've been very non-committal about the future because I don't want to negatively affect her mental health, but at some point she'll need to understand that things are different now and won't ever go back. I'm actually wondering if I'm doing her a disservice by putting it off, but I'm dreading it.
Anyway, how and when do you plan on having this conversation?
Listen - and I'm not being ironic here - you need help. Do you have a therapist you can talk to?
People freaking WILL (and some still do!) hug friends, attend school (some privates will be open as soon as this August), travel, and even ditch masks, eventually. A year from now, everything will be back to normal.
Reading some posts here, you'd think an asteroid hit the Earth and the surviving 50 humans all frequent DCUM. "Things are different now and won't ever go back". Geez.
Interesting. You've not heard the term "new normal" either? And you do realize the government never drops restrictions they institute, right?
I think you should go back to your social studies class. Seriously.
I keep forgetting people who don't remember 9/11 are old enough to have kids now.
Anonymous
07/23/2020 00:40
Subject: How do you tell a child they life they knew is over?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD (6) thinks things will go back to normal soon. She obviously can't grasp the full impact of the situation yet, and thinks that one day she'll be able to see her grandparents, not a wear a mask, travel, hug friends, attend school. I've been very non-committal about the future because I don't want to negatively affect her mental health, but at some point she'll need to understand that things are different now and won't ever go back. I'm actually wondering if I'm doing her a disservice by putting it off, but I'm dreading it.
Anyway, how and when do you plan on having this conversation?
Listen - and I'm not being ironic here - you need help. Do you have a therapist you can talk to?
People freaking WILL (and some still do!) hug friends, attend school (some privates will be open as soon as this August), travel, and even ditch masks, eventually. A year from now, everything will be back to normal.
Reading some posts here, you'd think an asteroid hit the Earth and the surviving 50 humans all frequent DCUM. "Things are different now and won't ever go back". Geez.
Interesting. You've not heard the term "new normal" either? And you do realize the government never drops restrictions they institute, right?
What? Is this the alternative reality thread? You think that the US will have a permanent mask ordinance (like for the rest of a 6 y.o.'s lifetime) and that no one will ever travel again? I'm pretty conservative w.r.t. Covid-19, and I pretty much agree with the DL decisions (even though I don't like them). But I don't think that the rest of life is going to be like some sort of post-apocalyptic disaster movie or anything.