Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just call her doctor and get a note saying she has compromised immunity and must be excused from in-person classes. Its like getting a note from the eye doctor to get out of swim in gym.
And people can ABSOLUTELY focus with a mask on for two hours. How the f*ck do you think surgeons perform surgery?
You don't lie about a health situation that doesn't exist. You take it at a different school or wait.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My dd signed up for a class that is foundational to her learning path. The school was unclear about the mode of instruction till the last minute. Now the professor has made it mandatory that all students attend in person, with consequences if they don’t. The state I am in is a raging COVID hotspot and as a parent I am upset at this decision. I do not want my DD to face the risk of sitting in class. It’s a 2 hr class to boot and I can’t fathom how she can focus with a mask on her face, for that long. What is a logical way to address this with the school, without losing my mind?
I feel badly for anyone who spent time sympathizing with this OP. You’ve been had. This is an absolute troll post.
Anonymous wrote:My dd signed up for a class that is foundational to her learning path. The school was unclear about the mode of instruction till the last minute. Now the professor has made it mandatory that all students attend in person, with consequences if they don’t. The state I am in is a raging COVID hotspot and as a parent I am upset at this decision. I do not want my DD to face the risk of sitting in class. It’s a 2 hr class to boot and I can’t fathom how she can focus with a mask on her face, for that long. What is a logical way to address this with the school, without losing my mind?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Attendance apologies around COVID are set by the university and I can’t fathom a school not allowing a student to opt into DL. Clarity around this isn’t great right now and I’m finding students think they have to come in when actually they don’t and I won’t be teaching in person 90% of the time.
Can your child just directly ask the department chair if there is a policy in the works for opting into distance learning? That would be an appropriate person to ask (the Professor doesn’t set this at a department-level) and in college “Dean of Students” isn’t a thing.
+1 to this, OP.
OP, your DD may be afraid to ask about this -- people love to say here that "you must let your college student handle ALL this alone, because, ADULT!" but if she has never before navigated questioning a person in authority over her, she might just knuckle under and not question it. So it's OK, and it is not "helicoptering," to give her some guidance. But don't make these contacts yourself. She does need to do that; you can give her help with a plan.
She can first confirm with the professor. Is this in writing or did she just hear him or her say it, or hear it second-hand? As the PP above notes students do get these things wrong sometimes and make incorrect assumptions or believe what other students say. She needs to sort that first. If in writing, she goes to the department chair. If overheard she should confirm with professor, ask professor if there is any way to do this DL, and then go to the department chair if the prof is saying no.
There is such a thing as a "dean of students" in colleges though maybe not at PP's college. Your DD needs to know who, over the department chair, is the next level up, if she needs to go there. The title doesn't matter, what matters is that she find the chain of responsibility here. If the department chair says in person is required and she pursues it further she needs to know who is over the department chair.
She may also find strength in numbers. If she knows other students who are also wanting this class DL, she should try (quickly, though) to get them on board to approach the professor/department chair/appropriate dean as a group. One person can be brushed aside as a complainer; a group is harder to ignore.
Finally, if you have a high-risk person in the home and she is living at home, she should point that out. It is a real risk if she is going back and forth to classes while living at home.
Come back and update her, and best of luck to her.
She did reach out to the proffessor directly explaining her concerns. The reply back from the prof was unbelievably rude. The tone of voice was just harsh offering no help other than dropping out. This is not a once a week class either, it is multiple times a week.
Anonymous wrote:Professor here. Believe it or not, colleges still need to maintain accreditation and accreditation rules do mandate that a class designated as on campus still meet a certain number of times. The college can't claim to have an on campus program and simply excuse everyone from attending. If you enroll in an on campus section you will be expected to attend unless you have requested an accommodation like using zoom. This would indeed involve documentation submitted to disability services for a condition like asthma or being immunocompromised
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Attendance apologies around COVID are set by the university and I can’t fathom a school not allowing a student to opt into DL. Clarity around this isn’t great right now and I’m finding students think they have to come in when actually they don’t and I won’t be teaching in person 90% of the time.
Can your child just directly ask the department chair if there is a policy in the works for opting into distance learning? That would be an appropriate person to ask (the Professor doesn’t set this at a department-level) and in college “Dean of Students” isn’t a thing.
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Maybe not for some community colleges, or maybe you are not familiar with any major universities?
Princeton: https://odus.princeton.edu/
Stanford: https://deanofstudents.stanford.edu/
UMichigan: https://deanofstudents.umich.edu/
UC Santa Barbara: http://studentlife.sa.ucsb.edu/departments/dean-of-students
Anonymous wrote:Attendance apologies around COVID are set by the university and I can’t fathom a school not allowing a student to opt into DL. Clarity around this isn’t great right now and I’m finding students think they have to come in when actually they don’t and I won’t be teaching in person 90% of the time.
Can your child just directly ask the department chair if there is a policy in the works for opting into distance learning? That would be an appropriate person to ask (the Professor doesn’t set this at a department-level) and in college “Dean of Students” isn’t a thing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Attendance apologies around COVID are set by the university and I can’t fathom a school not allowing a student to opt into DL. Clarity around this isn’t great right now and I’m finding students think they have to come in when actually they don’t and I won’t be teaching in person 90% of the time.
Can your child just directly ask the department chair if there is a policy in the works for opting into distance learning? That would be an appropriate person to ask (the Professor doesn’t set this at a department-level) and in college “Dean of Students” isn’t a thing.
+1 to this, OP.
OP, your DD may be afraid to ask about this -- people love to say here that "you must let your college student handle ALL this alone, because, ADULT!" but if she has never before navigated questioning a person in authority over her, she might just knuckle under and not question it. So it's OK, and it is not "helicoptering," to give her some guidance. But don't make these contacts yourself. She does need to do that; you can give her help with a plan.
She can first confirm with the professor. Is this in writing or did she just hear him or her say it, or hear it second-hand? As the PP above notes students do get these things wrong sometimes and make incorrect assumptions or believe what other students say. She needs to sort that first. If in writing, she goes to the department chair. If overheard she should confirm with professor, ask professor if there is any way to do this DL, and then go to the department chair if the prof is saying no.
There is such a thing as a "dean of students" in colleges though maybe not at PP's college. Your DD needs to know who, over the department chair, is the next level up, if she needs to go there. The title doesn't matter, what matters is that she find the chain of responsibility here. If the department chair says in person is required and she pursues it further she needs to know who is over the department chair.
She may also find strength in numbers. If she knows other students who are also wanting this class DL, she should try (quickly, though) to get them on board to approach the professor/department chair/appropriate dean as a group. One person can be brushed aside as a complainer; a group is harder to ignore.
Finally, if you have a high-risk person in the home and she is living at home, she should point that out. It is a real risk if she is going back and forth to classes while living at home.
Come back and update her, and best of luck to her.
Anonymous wrote:Attendance apologies around COVID are set by the university and I can’t fathom a school not allowing a student to opt into DL. Clarity around this isn’t great right now and I’m finding students think they have to come in when actually they don’t and I won’t be teaching in person 90% of the time.
Can your child just directly ask the department chair if there is a policy in the works for opting into distance learning? That would be an appropriate person to ask (the Professor doesn’t set this at a department-level) and in college “Dean of Students” isn’t a thing.
Anonymous wrote:Does your daughter share your concerns, or is she okay taking this class in person?