Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well I’m upset right now because I got him to at least agree to place all vehicles he purchases for me in my name only. So far so good but yesterday when we talked about trading in my suv for a newer model he tells me we’re going to take advantage of the 3 year interest free financing for the balance. Where as before he’s always bought them outright for me. So I thought to myself, so basically if things go south I’m on the hook for 40k! I really don’t understand why my DH thinks I’m an idiot. And why he would even think I would go for this new way of purchasing vehicles for me . I think that’s what really upsets me. So I just politely declined and said I’ll just keep the one I have. We really need to get into therapy ASAP! Waiting for therapist to open back up .
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He must have felt you might be a gold digger and wanted to protect himself. Get a job and create your own wealth.
He doesn’t want me working. He wants me taking care of the home and having dinners ready for him when he comes home from work.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You need to talk to a lawyer like you should have done before you signed this. For all you know this is a bunch of unenforceable garbage to keep you in line. You clearly don’t like your husband so perhaps a lawyer can help you go through a cost benefit analysis of being married.
This. And stop posting thread after thread when you’ve done nothing to take the advice from previous threads nor to better your own situation.
Anonymous wrote:You need to talk to a lawyer like you should have done before you signed this. For all you know this is a bunch of unenforceable garbage to keep you in line.[b] You clearly don’t like your husband so perhaps a lawyer can help you go through a cost benefit analysis of being married.
Anonymous wrote:You need to talk to a lawyer like you should have done before you signed this. For all you know this is a bunch of unenforceable garbage to keep you in line. You clearly don’t like your husband so perhaps a lawyer can help you go through a cost benefit analysis of being married.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He must have felt you might be a gold digger and wanted to protect himself. Get a job and create your own wealth.
He doesn’t want me working. He wants me taking care of the home and having dinners ready for him when he comes home from work.
Anonymous wrote:He must have felt you might be a gold digger and wanted to protect himself. Get a job and create your own wealth.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well I’m upset right now because I got him to at least agree to place all vehicles he purchases for me in my name only. So far so good but yesterday when we talked about trading in my suv for a newer model he tells me we’re going to take advantage of the 3 year interest free financing for the balance. Where as before he’s always bought them outright for me. So I thought to myself, so basically if things go south I’m on the hook for 40k! I really don’t understand why my DH thinks I’m an idiot. And why he would even think I would go for this new way of purchasing vehicles for me . I think that’s what really upsets me. So I just politely declined and said I’ll just keep the one I have. We really need to get into therapy ASAP! Waiting for therapist to open back up .
This is either a troll or an idiot. Possibly both.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well I’m upset right now because I got him to at least agree to place all vehicles he purchases for me in my name only. So far so good but yesterday when we talked about trading in my suv for a newer model he tells me we’re going to take advantage of the 3 year interest free financing for the balance. Where as before he’s always bought them outright for me. So I thought to myself, so basically if things go south I’m on the hook for 40k! I really don’t understand why my DH thinks I’m an idiot. And why he would even think I would go for this new way of purchasing vehicles for me . I think that’s what really upsets me. So I just politely declined and said I’ll just keep the one I have. We really need to get into therapy ASAP! Waiting for therapist to open back up .