Anonymous wrote:It's hard to keep up with the terminology in the protest community.
For a long time, it was Latino/Latina, but one day it was Latinx and you got the side eye if you didn't use the new term.
We were encouraged to refer to "persons of color" for a long time, but now it's BIPOC. When did that happen?
We would like to be allies, but apparently if you didn't get the right memo you will be a "performative" ally and that doesn't sound too good.
Apart from posting safely and anonymously on DCUM, I mostly just read and listen because the odds of saying or doing the wrong thing seem to be extremely high. If I do show up, I think I'll just hand out water bottles like a bystander at a marathon.
Anonymous wrote:
I can't grok with 4 or 5.
5 just ideologically, because we should be a united people. (I am OK with staying silent and not leading, etc. but not with someone saying "go sit in that corner because of your race.")
4 is definitely a no go. What if someone asks me to do something dangerous? I don't think anyone should be asked to give up their autonomy. It's not anything I would ever ask of anyone else.
Also, it seems odd that this is framed as black and white. Where do asian and hispanic people fit in?

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think #4 is a commandment the way it’s being processed here. You are at this table as a guest, behave like one.
Anonymous wrote:What about people of Asian descent? Do we follow the white people rules for protesting, or does it depend on what kind of Asian we are?
Anonymous wrote:https://forge.medium.com/performative-allyship-is-deadly-c900645d9f1f
I liked this one. Especially:
Do something that no one will ever know
As Lil Wayne said, “Real Gs move in silence like lasagne.” This is never more true than in activism. Sometimes real activism requires us to step up and shout. But far more often, it requires us to carry out simple daily acts that no one will ever see. If, on reflection, everything you do is public, it’s likely you’re a performative ally. Challenge yourself to do things quietly, like changing the things you buy, giving your platform to a BIPOC, or educating yourself on the history of racism without telling everyone about how educated you now are. That way, you know you’re really down for the cause — and not the cause of looking like a woke person.
Anonymous wrote:
I can't grok with 4 or 5.
5 just ideologically, because we should be a united people. (I am OK with staying silent and not leading, etc. but not with someone saying "go sit in that corner because of your race.")
4 is definitely a no go. What if someone asks me to do something dangerous? I don't think anyone should be asked to give up their autonomy. It's not anything I would ever ask of anyone else.
Also, it seems odd that this is framed as black and white. Where do asian and hispanic people fit in?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t think #4 is a commandment the way it’s being processed here. You are at this table as a guest, behave like one.
Thought white people are there as allies.
Exactly. So listen and support. No need to riff.
So not a “guest?”