The one kiss is not the beginning of the end, it is the end of the beginning. That kiss is not going to end the “undeniable attraction” and OP knows it.

Don’t tell your husband. Kind of pretend it didn’t happen.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If OP was a man, everyone would be telling him he needs to ask for a divorce immediately.

This makes no sense and I think the responses would be the same.

The responses are never the same:

Man as the OP in this scenario - DCUM response: You're an awful human being and your wife deserves better.

Woman as the OP in this scenario - DCUM response: If your husband didn't neglect you/the housework, this would never have happened.

Yet that has not been the response in this thread.

Anonymous wrote:Sounds hot. Let us know how it develops!

He could be your soulmate. Only one way to find out!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If OP was a man, everyone would be telling him he needs to ask for a divorce immediately.

This makes no sense and I think the responses would be the same.

The responses are never the same:

Man as the OP in this scenario - DCUM response: You're an awful human being and your wife deserves better.

Woman as the OP in this scenario - DCUM response: If your husband didn't neglect you/the housework, this would never have happened.

It's cheating. But how bad it is is determined by what happens next.

If you think "oh crap" and resolve to never do anything like that again and resolve to work at whatever might be going on to make you do that when you're married... then I think you can put it behind you and not tell your spouse. (I had a situation like that once where I was having some relationship problems and a guy kissed me and I felt horrible about it and used it as a reason why I should probably end my unhappy relationship - if I was so unhappy that I was kissing other guys, I should be single.)

If it makes you want to go further, then you may have a problem on your hands.

Ask your husband.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If OP was a man, everyone would be telling him he needs to ask for a divorce immediately.

This makes no sense and I think the responses would be the same.

+1

Sounds hot. Let us know how it develops!

Jeez - during the pandemic I'm not even shaking a neighbors hand let alone kissing him. The attraction must be intense!

Anonymous wrote:If OP was a man, everyone would be telling him he needs to ask for a divorce immediately.

This makes no sense and I think the responses would be the same.

If you were wearing a mask it might not count as cheating!

Of course it is. And it’s particularly bad since it is during a pandemic. You could literally kill your spouse because of that.

If OP was a man, everyone would be telling him he needs to ask for a divorce immediately.

What a beta that guy must be to not round for second base.