Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They go on mute immediately, even if it’s family. I don’t have space for their need to manipulate.
I don't think the mute button does what you think it does.
Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I think people just really want to reassure themselves that camps will go on, and they can send their kids, even if they know it may not happen. When you say no, it is a kernel of doubt that this will happen for them, bc it shows that people are still worried about the virus this summer. That gets people angry, but its really not at you.
I get riled up at doom and gloom stuck here for two years people and I found it was affecting my responses to even more cautious but rational people until I reeled my crazy back in.
Anonymous wrote:They go on mute immediately, even if it’s family. I don’t have space for their need to manipulate.
Anonymous wrote:I just shrug. Think a lot of extroverts and drama lamas are having a really hard time right now.
Anonymous wrote:Why are you around so many eye rolling people? You're going to get Coronavirus if you keep it up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No one is reacting that way because of a simple no. Just not happening.
Look on this board. No one is referred to as any of those things if all they say is we aren't going back to daycare this summer.
You will see the people who get described as hysterical or catastrophizing are the ones who are acting in hysterical or catastrophizing ways based on what they are saying.
I don't believe you at all that a simple no to a question led to rants against you multiple times.
OP here. You are wrong. All I said to the direct question was “no”. Not one thing more. And it’s happened four times in the last two days.
No it hasn't. Or else there is so much history prior to these very simple but frequent conversations you are having that people already know you are extremely dramatic.
But I am 99.999999% sure this didn't happen 4 times in the last two days in response to you saying the word no to your child returning to daycare.
Just a heads up, you look REALLY silly when you dig in your heels so hard to deny a poster own story just because it doesn't fit your own narrative.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No one is reacting that way because of a simple no. Just not happening.
Look on this board. No one is referred to as any of those things if all they say is we aren't going back to daycare this summer.
You will see the people who get described as hysterical or catastrophizing are the ones who are acting in hysterical or catastrophizing ways based on what they are saying.
I don't believe you at all that a simple no to a question led to rants against you multiple times.
OP here. You are wrong. All I said to the direct question was “no”. Not one thing more. And it’s happened four times in the last two days.
No it hasn't. Or else there is so much history prior to these very simple but frequent conversations you are having that people already know you are extremely dramatic.
But I am 99.999999% sure this didn't happen 4 times in the last two days in response to you saying the word no to your child returning to daycare.
Anonymous wrote:I just shrug. Think a lot of extroverts and drama lamas are having a really hard time right now.