Anonymous
Post 04/03/2020 13:07     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Why don't you walk into the bank and ask for an ATM card?
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2020 08:14     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You have a joint account, but asked him for a check. That doesn't make sense.


Yep unfortunately that’s the way it works in our marriage. I wish he would just take my name off of the account because basically he’s just patronizing me.


You’re and adult. Open your own accounts. You can do it online right now.

We have a joint account but I don’t care or even look at what my SAHM DW buys or does with it. I trust her not to do anything stupid. She takes care of herself and is happy, what do I have to be upset over?

Your husband is crazy.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 23:25     Subject: Re:Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Tell him BJs are $100 and PIV is $200, and watch him start peeling off the bills!
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 23:00     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
OP is a troll. No one "asks for a check" from their dh any more. Sounds like it may have been written in the 90s at the earliest, or some senior citizen is amusing themselves by writing dcum fan fiction. I'm in my 50s and OP sounds like a geezer. Try again.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 22:56     Subject: Re:Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think you’re a troll


+1



I hope so, or OP has some serious issues.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 22:25     Subject: Re:Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Anonymous wrote:I think you’re a troll


+1

Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 22:22     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Anonymous wrote:Now that I’m not bringing in a income right now I’m having to ask DH for $$. I actually think he’s enjoying this control he has right now. We have a joint bank account and yesterday when I asked for a check he barks, it’s empty. Then he threw $150 on the counter. I’m like seriously? Fyi he’s worth millions! My mom suggested I go work at Walmart and make sure I post pics on FB & tag him. It’s got me so depressed realizing how he actually is. Since this is the only time I’ve been out of work since we’ve been married. I work pt time but it’s nice having that spending money. I asked him if I could file my own tax returns so I could get $ back. He said no cause we file together and he claims me. Wth is that about? Now I really feel like a child.


If you have a joint bank account you shouldn’t have to ask him to withdraw from it.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 22:11     Subject: Re:Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Anonymous wrote:But I can tell you one thing. His behavior isn’t helping my libido! It’s been such a turnoff seeing how he really is, treating me like a child. And they wonder why we lose interest in sex. Haha


"Give me money or I'll stop having sex with you."

You know what you are -- you're just haggling over the price.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 22:06     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
OP, you can try applying at a grocery store if you really would like some extra spending money.

Supermarkets are usually always hiring now.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 18:52     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
I say definitely a troll, but if by some small chance not, then the Queen of First World Problems.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 18:39     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Anonymous wrote:You have a joint account, but asked him for a check. That doesn't make sense.


Yep unfortunately that’s the way it works in our marriage. I wish he would just take my name off of the account because basically he’s just patronizing me.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 18:36     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Anonymous wrote:Wait, no debit or credit card? You have problems girl.


Yes I have a few credit cards . But if he notices too many retail purchases all hell breaks lose.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 18:25     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Buy krugerrands.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 17:51     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
I don't understand people like OP. Do you have no shame? Support yourself, stand up for yourself. You only come across as an idiot.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2020 17:47     Subject: Never knew my DH was so controlling!
Just sell stuff and pocket the cash.