Anonymous
03/25/2020 09:57
Subject: Nanny and housekeeper wprking other jobs
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I told my nanny and housekeeper that I'll pay their regular hours and pay and they don't have to work at my house during that time. I'm concerned that they'll be working at other places and I'll still being paying them and I don't think that's fair. WWYD?
What's "fair" depends on your goals. You don't own other people or their time -- unless you're paying for it. If your goal is for them to quarantine themselves so that they and you will be less exposed, then pay them for the 24-7 time that you would like them to restrict their behavior on your behalf. If you're just being pissy because they're using their time away from your home productively, then your expectations are bizarrely inappropriate - IMO. Why are you so "concerned" about how other people spend their time? (not solely a snarky question -- I'm genuinely curious and not sure what I'm missing here.)
Pay them for 24/7 can only come out of someone who has never ever done the calculations of what it costs to hire a nanny in this area. Even at straight time to not complicate matters, it will easily translate into paying $12,000 a month minimum. Be realistic.
Live-in nanny here. 24/5 and 24/7 are usually $50k+/year, but they’re not $12k per month. There are additional costs (vehicle, food, insurance, etc), but total costs don’t usually exceed $100k for a year. $12k/month equates to $144k/year; I’ve only seen 5 positions advertised as $125k+ in the last couple years, but at had extenuating conditions that necessitated higher pay to attract the right candidate.
Anonymous
03/24/2020 22:46
Subject: Nanny and housekeeper wprking other jobs
Troll
Anonymous
03/24/2020 22:34
Subject: Nanny and housekeeper wprking other jobs
OP didn’t say why she was paying them. She din’t say anything about quarantine. If she is concerned about the nanny getting sick, she would have to pay the nanny not to work and not to go to the grocery, the pharmacy, etc. OP just thinks it’s unfair that she can’t control their behavior.
Anonymous
03/24/2020 22:06
Subject: Re:Nanny and housekeeper wprking other jobs
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You are giving them PTO. What they do with that time is not your business. Also, I hope you are treating them both as household employees for tax purposes if you want to try to control them like that.
She is not giving them PTO. She is paying her nanny her regular rate to quarantine herself. The two things are very different.
This people. Put yourself in the OP's shoes. Use your head. Why is OP's concern so hard to understand? It was actually generous of the OP to do this for her nanny.
Anonymous
03/24/2020 22:03
Subject: Nanny and housekeeper wprking other jobs
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I told my nanny and housekeeper that I'll pay their regular hours and pay and they don't have to work at my house during that time. I'm concerned that they'll be working at other places and I'll still being paying them and I don't think that's fair. WWYD?
What's "fair" depends on your goals. You don't own other people or their time -- unless you're paying for it. If your goal is for them to quarantine themselves so that they and you will be less exposed, then pay them for the 24-7 time that you would like them to restrict their behavior on your behalf. If you're just being pissy because they're using their time away from your home productively, then your expectations are bizarrely inappropriate - IMO. Why are you so "concerned" about how other people spend their time? (not solely a snarky question -- I'm genuinely curious and not sure what I'm missing here.)
Pay them for 24/7 can only come out of someone who has never ever done the calculations of what it costs to hire a nanny in this area. Even at straight time to not complicate matters, it will easily translate into paying $12,000 a month minimum. Be realistic.
Anonymous
03/24/2020 22:00
Subject: Nanny and housekeeper wprking other jobs
Anonymous wrote:I told my nanny and housekeeper that I'll pay their regular hours and pay and they don't have to work at my house during that time. I'm concerned that they'll be working at other places and I'll still being paying them and I don't think that's fair. WWYD?
Money aside, i would be worried they get exposure from covid working other jobs and return to you guys before 14 days. Will you require her to be symptom free for 14 days before she returns?
Anonymous
03/24/2020 07:55
Subject: Re:Nanny and housekeeper wprking other jobs
Anonymous wrote:Off topic but what's the legal way\language to put in a nanny contract that while a childcare provider is being paid by employer, they can't accept other work during those contracted hours?
Look up one of the multitudes of nanny contracts available online.