Anonymous
Post 03/13/2020 11:57     Subject: Re:nanny working during coronavirus?

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:If there is a quarantine in place, or we have reason to believe we may have the virus beyond the background rest we all have, no, our nanny would not come to work. Nor would she come to work if there is any recommendation that people take more extreme measures that are currently advised. As of now, there is no advice not to leave homes, and not to attend places with small numbers of people. As of now, though, both she and we are comfortable with her coming to work. She has worked with us for over a decade, and we speak with each other a very directly. We have told her that if she is at all uncomfortable at any time, for any reason, she should just let us know and not come. And, of course, we are paying her for any time she misses due to the virus or any concerns she may have.



You are a caring boss and your nanny is very lucky. I’ve been with my family about the same length of time and the expect me to be here, no matter what. I’m willing to do that, but they refuse to limit their social activities or that of the kids. They will be working from home and schools will be closed. They plan to be out and about. I’m limiting myself to work and right home. It’s an impossible situation and very upsetting.

I’d be looking for a new position.



+1. You’re working for self-centered idiots.


The irony PP is not at all self centered interviewing with multiple new families and risk spreading the virus.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2020 21:01     Subject: Re:nanny working during coronavirus?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If there is a quarantine in place, or we have reason to believe we may have the virus beyond the background rest we all have, no, our nanny would not come to work. Nor would she come to work if there is any recommendation that people take more extreme measures that are currently advised. As of now, there is no advice not to leave homes, and not to attend places with small numbers of people. As of now, though, both she and we are comfortable with her coming to work. She has worked with us for over a decade, and we speak with each other a very directly. We have told her that if she is at all uncomfortable at any time, for any reason, she should just let us know and not come. And, of course, we are paying her for any time she misses due to the virus or any concerns she may have.



You are a caring boss and your nanny is very lucky. I’ve been with my family about the same length of time and the expect me to be here, no matter what. I’m willing to do that, but they refuse to limit their social activities or that of the kids. They will be working from home and schools will be closed. They plan to be out and about. I’m limiting myself to work and right home. It’s an impossible situation and very upsetting.

I’d be looking for a new position.



+1. You’re working for self-centered idiots.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2020 19:19     Subject: Re:nanny working during coronavirus?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If there is a quarantine in place, or we have reason to believe we may have the virus beyond the background rest we all have, no, our nanny would not come to work. Nor would she come to work if there is any recommendation that people take more extreme measures that are currently advised. As of now, there is no advice not to leave homes, and not to attend places with small numbers of people. As of now, though, both she and we are comfortable with her coming to work. She has worked with us for over a decade, and we speak with each other a very directly. We have told her that if she is at all uncomfortable at any time, for any reason, she should just let us know and not come. And, of course, we are paying her for any time she misses due to the virus or any concerns she may have.



You are a caring boss and your nanny is very lucky. I’ve been with my family about the same length of time and the expect me to be here, no matter what. I’m willing to do that, but they refuse to limit their social activities or that of the kids. They will be working from home and schools will be closed. They plan to be out and about. I’m limiting myself to work and right home. It’s an impossible situation and very upsetting.

I’d be looking for a new position.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2020 17:57     Subject: Re:nanny working during coronavirus?

Anonymous wrote:If there is a quarantine in place, or we have reason to believe we may have the virus beyond the background rest we all have, no, our nanny would not come to work. Nor would she come to work if there is any recommendation that people take more extreme measures that are currently advised. As of now, there is no advice not to leave homes, and not to attend places with small numbers of people. As of now, though, both she and we are comfortable with her coming to work. She has worked with us for over a decade, and we speak with each other a very directly. We have told her that if she is at all uncomfortable at any time, for any reason, she should just let us know and not come. And, of course, we are paying her for any time she misses due to the virus or any concerns she may have.



You are a caring boss and your nanny is very lucky. I’ve been with my family about the same length of time and the expect me to be here, no matter what. I’m willing to do that, but they refuse to limit their social activities or that of the kids. They will be working from home and schools will be closed. They plan to be out and about. I’m limiting myself to work and right home. It’s an impossible situation and very upsetting.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2020 15:35     Subject: Re:nanny working during coronavirus?

If there is a quarantine in place, or we have reason to believe we may have the virus beyond the background rest we all have, no, our nanny would not come to work. Nor would she come to work if there is any recommendation that people take more extreme measures that are currently advised. As of now, there is no advice not to leave homes, and not to attend places with small numbers of people. As of now, though, both she and we are comfortable with her coming to work. She has worked with us for over a decade, and we speak with each other a very directly. We have told her that if she is at all uncomfortable at any time, for any reason, she should just let us know and not come. And, of course, we are paying her for any time she misses due to the virus or any concerns she may have.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2020 14:50     Subject: nanny working during coronavirus?

Wondering about this too. Our nanny has one child in the same school district as ours. She doesn’t have family here, but has some friends. DH and I will both be teleworking. We offered to have her bring her daughter here during the day. They would just be coming back and forth from their house to ours. We presumably wouldn’t be going anywhere unless necessary. We’d supply food and other daily consumables, obviously. She’s open to it, but we will all wait and see. If anyone of us shows symptoms of anything, everyone will have to stay home.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2020 14:41     Subject: nanny working during coronavirus?

You offer a fat bonus if she agrees to isolate herself from potential risky situations, as much as possible.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2020 08:55     Subject: Re:nanny working during coronavirus?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No way should a nanny who lives with other people and takes public transportation to work come to your house to work.


So, you’re saying that as long as the nanny drives to your house she should continue to cone to work?



Social distancing, if she lives alone or has a wah spouse? Absolutely. Quarantine? No.
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2020 17:07     Subject: nanny working during coronavirus?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a live in nanny to school age children. If schools close and camps are closed. I’m quitting. I work 5 am to 9 pm and the kids are in school or camp 7-5. I’m not working 16 hour days. Especially for the peanuts I make.


You work 6 hours a day right now, so I assume you are only paid for six hours. That’s why you make peanuts. It’s a pretty sweet gig if you also get room and board.


I also do all the errands, grocery shopping, cooking, laundry etc. schedule/ coordinate home and car maintenance.


That doesn’t take long.


Great - sounds like you want the job. Post your email for when PP quits.

Crickets.
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2020 16:59     Subject: nanny working during coronavirus?

I actually thought this was about nerves about having a nanny work during Coronavirus. We have part time nanny who babysits a lot of families and an immune compromised relative living with us. We are debating giving her off a few weeks.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 08:08     Subject: nanny working during coronavirus?

Anonymous wrote:Would you want to go live with you employer during this time, or be with family & friends?


Hell no! No amount of money would be worth it.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 07:18     Subject: nanny working during coronavirus?

Would you want to go live with you employer during this time, or be with family & friends?
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 07:11     Subject: nanny working during coronavirus?

Expect to offer a generous bonus to any nanny who agrees to limit her social life for you.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 07:06     Subject: Re:nanny working during coronavirus?

Anonymous wrote:My understanding is that we are supposed to stay home - no food deliveries or trips to even the grocery store (the advice to stockpile for two weeks). So, no, the nanny shouldn’t be commuting from her home to yours. She could get the virus from her family and spread it to yours and so much worse if she takes public transportation.

Our nanny walks to work and lives alone which I think is safer but she’s agreed to move in with us if there is a quarantine


But she will still shop, maybe get her hair cut meanwhile? Did you buy enough supplies for an additional adult? Have you asked her about any comfort foods she might want for two stressful weeks?

Anonymous
Post 03/08/2020 07:05     Subject: nanny working during coronavirus?

Sounds like more families will be looking to bribe a nanny to put up with live-in arrangements, and commit to extensive social distancing.

For the right price you can find almost anything.