Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is definitely cheating or having ONS. Just end it and move on. It is what it is. Deep down you know this is true. Not right or wrong. It is what it is. Do you want to be true to your self or live a lie for appearances.

I actually do not think this is true and I am far from naive.

If you seriously don’t think he’s cheating, go to a therapist because some of this is the mid life happiness lies that occur across cultures. Having gone through it, life gets so much better. Honestly if he is not cheating, take a step back and get therapy before taking any actions.

Anonymous wrote:He is definitely cheating or having ONS. Just end it and move on. It is what it is. Deep down you know this is true. Not right or wrong. It is what it is. Do you want to be true to your self or live a lie for appearances.

I actually do not think this is true and I am far from naive.

He is definitely cheating or having ONS. Just end it and move on. It is what it is. Deep down you know this is true. Not right or wrong. It is what it is. Do you want to be true to your self or live a lie for appearances.

Yes...go to counseling. Try to make it better. He’s a known commodity and he doesn’t seem so bad. Don’t downgrade your life because you’re in the doldrums. You will have a hard time finding a new partner...with millions in the bank, it’s going to be hard to find a man who isn’t using you—guys who don’t care about your money are the successful ones who are already taken.

Anonymous wrote:Go to marriage counseling! You two basically have an empire and you’re going to break it apart and piss it away on lawyers?!

The Haft family did that 30 years ago and what happened to their empire?