Anonymous wrote:OP, i am from a very cold place and I would murder DH for this. And to all idiots who say cold doesnt make you sick - yes it does.

If you’re really from a cold place you know about dressing for the weather and activity and you’d know the kid is fine at these temps

Anonymous wrote:OP, i am from a very cold place and I would murder DH for this. And to all idiots who say cold doesnt make you sick - yes it does.

DC is not a very cold place.

OP, i am from a very cold place and I would murder DH for this. And to all idiots who say cold doesnt make you sick - yes it does.

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Anonymous wrote:I've timed it. It takes me 24 seconds to unbuckle my kid from their car seat, have them stand outside the car, and to get their coat on (and zippered/hood up). In that 24 seconds, we could have run across the parking lot and into the warm store! So we don't wear coats very often when running errands. Playing outside, sure, but it doesn't sound like your DH was doing that, so I don't really understand the big deal.

Being cold doesn't make you sick.

You actually timed it?

Yes, because some busybody old lady at Food Lion made a comment one day about how my son must be "so cold because mama forgot his jacket" and I wanted to be armed for next time.

Ha! This is great.

I get it. You like things done a certain way and you worry when DH does things differently. I’m the same, and it’s exhausting. Currently working on not sweating the small stuff because I think I started to overlook the bigger stuff by exhausting myself over details that don’t matter. Everyone was low key stressed out all the time because of me and my perfectionism. Start letting go a little now so you don’t end up like me when your kids are older and harder to micromanage! But I do feel you. I get it. It’s hard when you have one thing in mind and have to be flexible.

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Anonymous wrote:I've timed it. It takes me 24 seconds to unbuckle my kid from their car seat, have them stand outside the car, and to get their coat on (and zippered/hood up). In that 24 seconds, we could have run across the parking lot and into the warm store! So we don't wear coats very often when running errands. Playing outside, sure, but it doesn't sound like your DH was doing that, so I don't really understand the big deal.

Being cold doesn't make you sick.

You actually timed it?

Yes, because some busybody old lady at Food Lion made a comment one day about how my son must be "so cold because mama forgot his jacket" and I wanted to be armed for next time.

How about stashing an extra coat and hat for the kid in the car and just keeping it there? And just let DH know that just in case something happens and kid does get cold it's available?

My DS would fuss over a coat and if he was very resistant I'd just bring the coat along. He'd get overheated pretty quickly once coat etc on while I was getting mine on and grabbing stuff. Not likely he's going to be stranded in the cold but it could happen. And mittens/hat.

If I'm running errands and in a store for any length of time I end up tossing my coat in the cart, I start feeling woozy and hot.

Anonymous wrote:I've timed it. It takes me 24 seconds to unbuckle my kid from their car seat, have them stand outside the car, and to get their coat on (and zippered/hood up). In that 24 seconds, we could have run across the parking lot and into the warm store! So we don't wear coats very often when running errands. Playing outside, sure, but it doesn't sound like your DH was doing that, so I don't really understand the big deal.

Being cold doesn't make you sick.

You actually timed it?

OP has fled.

OP, tell us about the guy at work who "really listens" and is hot.

No. You don’t get sick from being cold. Also, I’d be more annoyed if he put a kid in a coat in a car seat.

I wouldn't be annoyed if the kid didn't want to wear the coat, but I'd think it was a good idea to take a coat just in case. My kids are older and can choose whether to wear a coat, but they know to bring one in the car. What happens if your car breaks down or you get into an accident and need to leave the car? Better to have the coat just in case.

Anonymous wrote:2yo DD has been sick on off for the past month. I saw he left the house this morning without her coat. DH thinks it is no big deal since it is 46 degrees. It was 33 degrees when he left the house. Now I’m even more angry that he thinks the high temp of the day is the same as the current temp.

Of course he didn’t forget to take a coat for himself.

Would you be mad if your DH took out a 2yo in the cold without a coat?

Viruses cause colds not weather! Obviously, your DH. Is a lot smarter than you.

He’s doing it to be a jerk. Figure out why.