Anonymous
01/19/2020 13:03
Subject: Re:Dating someone not in the country legally
Anonymous wrote:I don't speed, steal bread, enter countries illegally, or "break rules" or laws, so it would not work for me on an emotional level.
If you don’t speed or fib on your taxes, you know, by not claiming to employ that nanny or cleaning lady you pay in cash, or not declaring those Amazon purchases you haven’t paid sales tax on, then you’re one person in a million.
Don’t judge everyone by your own standards (or lack of).
Anonymous
01/19/2020 12:42
Subject: Re:Dating someone not in the country legally
I don't speed, steal bread, enter countries illegally, or "break rules" or laws, so it would not work for me on an emotional level.
If you don’t speed or fib on your taxes, you know, by not claiming to employ that nanny or cleaning lady you pay in cash, or not declaring those Amazon purchases you haven’t paid sales tax on, then you’re one person in a million.
Anonymous
01/19/2020 11:40
Subject: Re:Dating someone not in the country legally
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't speed, steal bread, enter countries illegally, or "break rules" or laws, so it would not work for me on an emotional level. I would be constantly worried. For me, if his parents brought him in illegally, I would find it hard to trust people that have different values from my own immigrant family, who entered the US legally and became citizens, legally.
But, if you are willing to accept all of the possible risks (financial, emotional, legal, etc), & you feel he is really "the one", you should go for it. Life is short
You don't speed. Sure thing, sunshine.
I truly feel for the people who are illegal because their parents put them in such a bad position as children.
They are in a much different class than people who make a conscious decision to travel here illegally.
Have you heard their stories of what they were trying to escape? If you had dead, rotting bodies outside of your house frequently, wouldn’t you try to get your kids to a safe place?
I've been to the third world many times, and never once saw a dead rotting body outside of anyone's house.
Do you know what Americans would do if that happened here? If the government failed to bury the dead rotting bodies, we would do it ourselves. We're allowing people to settle here that aren't even competent to bury the dead.