Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:55     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, I’m 64 and I still really like that my husband wants to pound the mattress with me at least once a week. It may be for his pleasure but I get off on it too.


Gross


Why gross?
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:48     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I slept with over 50 guys before marrying my DH at 30 (and he knows this), so my wild oats were largely taken care of. Once or twice a week satisfies me these days (two kids and 15 years of marriage).


What type and how many STDs did you acquire? I am guessing you had to have had at least one.


None. I’m healthy as a horse. A few pregnancy scares, though.


More likely, you are a 42 year old man that weighs 278 pounds, had Wendys 4 times in the last week, and has never heard a woman (aside from your mom) say "I love you."

Keep tugging your pud, Stanley.


That’s just incorrect, so I really don’t know what to say. But I do detect an odor of misogyny in your post.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:37     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If he was okay with me self satisfying once or twice a week, yes it’s fine.

I could not imagine tossing my H aside if he did not want sex.

Love is not sex.


It can be a way of expressing love. I think your statement is way too general. You can have love without sex or sex without love. You can't generalize about the relationship between the two.


I agree. Physical desire can be very loving. There are many types of love. I love many people, but the physical love I have with my husband is a HUGE part of my marriage. I’m happier with a loving sexual relationship.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:35     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I slept with over 50 guys before marrying my DH at 30 (and he knows this), so my wild oats were largely taken care of. Once or twice a week satisfies me these days (two kids and 15 years of marriage).


What type and how many STDs did you acquire? I am guessing you had to have had at least one.


None. I’m healthy as a horse. A few pregnancy scares, though.


More likely, you are a 42 year old man that weighs 278 pounds, had Wendys 4 times in the last week, and has never heard a woman (aside from your mom) say "I love you."

Keep tugging your pud, Stanley.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:31     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
OMG yes. If I didn't have to wake up every morning with that hard on pushing on me I would be so glad.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:08     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
What? No,I would never be ok with that. Who are you people? What sad and pathetic lives do you lead?
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:06     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:39 DW. I’d have sex everyday if we could. (Both work, young kids, life).
And in fact over the summer when kids were at camp we did it everyday. I could not go without it and I have several friends like me who crave it a lot - and are all married.
I do have a few friends - one without kids - who haven’t had sex in years. Same age.
It’s not a one size fits all.


So to speak.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:05     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I slept with over 50 guys before marrying my DH at 30 (and he knows this), so my wild oats were largely taken care of. Once or twice a week satisfies me these days (two kids and 15 years of marriage).


What type and how many STDs did you acquire? I am guessing you had to have had at least one.


None. I’m healthy as a horse. A few pregnancy scares, though.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 18:04     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:I slept with over 50 guys before marrying my DH at 30 (and he knows this), so my wild oats were largely taken care of. Once or twice a week satisfies me these days (two kids and 15 years of marriage).


What type and how many STDs did you acquire? I am guessing you had to have had at least one.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 17:56     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:If he was okay with me self satisfying once or twice a week, yes it’s fine.

I could not imagine tossing my H aside if he did not want sex.

Love is not sex.


It can be a way of expressing love. I think your statement is way too general. You can have love without sex or sex without love. You can't generalize about the relationship between the two.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 17:52     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
If he was okay with me self satisfying once or twice a week, yes it’s fine.

I could not imagine tossing my H aside if he did not want sex.

Love is not sex.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 17:48     Subject: How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
39 DW. I’d have sex everyday if we could. (Both work, young kids, life).
And in fact over the summer when kids were at camp we did it everyday. I could not go without it and I have several friends like me who crave it a lot - and are all married.
I do have a few friends - one without kids - who haven’t had sex in years. Same age.
It’s not a one size fits all.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 17:38     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
Anonymous wrote:My reflexive answer is yes, but then no sex ever again seems like a big step. But I have zero desire for DH, although we do it on occasion. If never again with him but with someone else was an option than yes.

Married 15 years, 44 and I think I speak for most women I know


No you don’t speak for us. Some of us really like sex, but we don’t preach about it or discuss on DCUM.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 17:30     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
My reflexive answer is yes, but then no sex ever again seems like a big step. But I have zero desire for DH, although we do it on occasion. If never again with him but with someone else was an option than yes.

Married 15 years, 44 and I think I speak for most women I know
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2020 16:48     Subject: Re:How many women would be fine to never have sex with DH if it didn't bother them?
I slept with over 50 guys before marrying my DH at 30 (and he knows this), so my wild oats were largely taken care of. Once or twice a week satisfies me these days (two kids and 15 years of marriage).