Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who still uses Facebook?

Everyone..... except they say they don't.

I stopped using FB because it was doing me more harm than good. Seems to apply to OP as well.

No dramatic exit or announcement. Just stopped logging in.

+1

Ha! My SIL unfriended me and other SILs and MIL from Facebook. I had never commented on any of her posts. She's high-maintenance and difficult to be around. DH's family really tries with her but nothing is ever enough. I'm sure it's good riddance all around.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How would they know you’ve blocked them? Do you actually think people stop and think about who is coming up in their feed. Seriously—your MIL & SIL will NOT say, “Hmm, I haven’t seen a post by Glinda in over a week. Let me see if she’s blocked us...”

NP.

Yes, they will. My own inlaws remarked frequently about my posts.

Who cares if they notice? Just state your boundary and stand by it. OP is an adult.

I did not say I cared. I said they would notice. I blocked my own mil.

DO IT. My block list is about 5 screens long.

Anonymous wrote:You sound very immature. I agree with another poster that you need to grow up.

What's immature is implying someone needs to continue as is on a social media platform to appease two gossipy and inappropriate individuals. Being mature is controlling your environment and removing yourself from toxicity.

Anonymous wrote:My SIL screenshots everything I post or anyone posts on FB and sends it to MIL who does not have FB. They discuss others for hours, so of course they gossip about me too.

So block SIL. End of story.

Just have it set up to review tags and no one is allowed to post anything on my wall- I'm selective about who sees certain posts- FB also has that function. No one is allowed to tag me on FB- people see what I want them to see.

It's a really good idea to prevent tagging and allowing others to post on your wall anyway-- I had an ex -friend years ago who went looney-tunes and started an argument by tagging me and posting on my wall. Of course I blocked her, but I also enacted those functions to prevent any future embarrassment in case someone else decided to go crazy or let out their inner racist.

Blocking them is going to cause additional drama once they figure out that they are blocked. Why do that? It sounds like your MIL and SIL are enough drama already.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who still uses Facebook?

Everyone..... except they say they don't.

I stopped using FB because it was doing me more harm than good. Seems to apply to OP as well.

No dramatic exit or announcement. Just stopped logging in.

You sound very immature. I agree with another poster that you need to grow up.