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Anonymous wrote:My dad cheated on all five of his wives. Karma bus never hit him.

Why did five women want to marry him?

He is very Dark Triad - narcissist, machiavellian, psychopathic (i.e., lacking empathy for others).

He is very clever and amusing. He naturally dominates any social situation he is in.

He makes a lot of money in a prestigious profession - big house, fancy cars, travels the world a lot.

Anonymous wrote:Karma doesn’t exist. Stalin died warm in his bed.

Beria poisoned Stalin.

https://www.nytimes.com/2003/03/05/world/new-study-supports-idea-stalin-was-poisoned.html

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Anonymous wrote:The belief in karma is something victims convince themselves of in order to feel better. Of course, sometimes random justice happens, but as another poster stated, these people are often very charismatic and land on their feet quite well. I am still angry, bitter and full of hate. I know it's hurting me and not him, but I've not been able to stop it. I don't want him to die. I want him to suffer a massive stroke that leaves his mental faculties intact but completely debilitates his body. I want him to become a quadraplegic and live for a very long time, forcing his mistress/now-wife to be stuck with him for the next 25 years. That would be karma.

Get thee to a therapist. You are wasting your life.

Therapy can't fix this. I've been there, I know my life is being wasted. He robbed me of my financial security(I'm the one who had the money) and my social circle. He has only gained from being married to me and now I am left with the stigma of being twice divorced. On the last night of our marriage, there was physical contact that led to some facial disfigurement which I cannot afford to get fixed. He really didn't mean for it to happen, but it did. There is now probably a very limited pool of dating options for me now matter how happy or confident I would be. I am being dragged through the courts more than 2 years after the default divorce was finalized. Him claiming he never got the papers because now he is being garnished. The gift that keeps on giving. So, yeah, quadriplegic seems a great option for him.

Wait, what? This is terrible. Why are you not suing his ass for damages and hauling him into the police for this, if it is domestic violence, which it seems to be, from what you describe.

This was one of the very few times that a PP returned to include more details and I came away feeling much more sympathetic to them. I'm very glad you left him, PP. Life is filled with bad times and good times, just hang in there and you'll get to the good stuff.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The belief in karma is something victims convince themselves of in order to feel better. Of course, sometimes random justice happens, but as another poster stated, these people are often very charismatic and land on their feet quite well. I am still angry, bitter and full of hate. I know it's hurting me and not him, but I've not been able to stop it. I don't want him to die. I want him to suffer a massive stroke that leaves his mental faculties intact but completely debilitates his body. I want him to become a quadraplegic and live for a very long time, forcing his mistress/now-wife to be stuck with him for the next 25 years. That would be karma.

Get thee to a therapist. You are wasting your life.

Therapy can't fix this. I've been there, I know my life is being wasted. He robbed me of my financial security(I'm the one who had the money) and my social circle. He has only gained from being married to me and now I am left with the stigma of being twice divorced. On the last night of our marriage, there was physical contact that led to some facial disfigurement which I cannot afford to get fixed. He really didn't mean for it to happen, but it did. There is now probably a very limited pool of dating options for me now matter how happy or confident I would be. I am being dragged through the courts more than 2 years after the default divorce was finalized. Him claiming he never got the papers because now he is being garnished. The gift that keeps on giving. So, yeah, quadriplegic seems a great option for him.

Wait, what? This is terrible. Why are you not suing his ass for damages and hauling him into the police for this, if it is domestic violence, which it seems to be, from what you describe.

Anonymous wrote:So these mofos just ride off into the sunset, huh?

Yes, so women need to stop being so bitter and enjoy their lives!

Anonymous wrote:The belief in karma is something victims convince themselves of in order to feel better. Of course, sometimes random justice happens, but as another poster stated, these people are often very charismatic and land on their feet quite well. I am still angry, bitter and full of hate. I know it's hurting me and not him, but I've not been able to stop it. I don't want him to die. I want him to suffer a massive stroke that leaves his mental faculties intact but completely debilitates his body. I want him to become a quadraplegic and live for a very long time, forcing his mistress/now-wife to be stuck with him for the next 25 years. That would be karma.

That's what happened to one cheater I know of! Except his mistress was utterly devoted to him and didn't feel "stuck." The karma part was that he was a d*ck anyway, and the woman he cheated on escaped having to be his caregiver and had a much more prosperous and happy life divorced that she would have had if she stayed married to him.

The cheater I know more personally (my ex) will never suffer any karma. He cheats because he is a bipolar drama king, and no amount of karma will change that. Karma is actually what feeds him.

My dad cheated on my mom and is still with the AP.

There’s no such thing as karma. The universe is random.

That being said, I take a little bit of delight when I hear he is sick with food poisoning or he has major car issues.

It don't know if it's karma-- I think when people are truly bad, they may reap what they sow. My dad was a cheater, terrible absent father, and generally a bad guy who only cared about himself.

He's in his 70s now, lecturing everyone about the meaning of family because he wishes he still had one.

Years ago I dated a man and he cheated on me. The karma wasn't his but the women who he cheated on pretty much laughed at me and acted like she won a prize. S*x was hot for her etc.

A couple of years later she had an AVO against him for violence. He had fiddled with her kid and the whole ordeal was really messy.

I remember being so relieved that she ended up with him, she spared me some real drama. I would feel sorry for her but she knew she was cheating and thought it was funny. Getting punched in the face didn't end up being so funny for her but I never found any sympathy for her.

It never does. I know someone like this and he is blissfully happy with this drip of a girlfriend who thinks he s***s rainbows

Damn, some salty people...

I think someone already posted this message along these lines. The best karma is to be your best and look your best. Word will travel back to your spouse about how well you’re doing and how well you look.

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Anonymous wrote:The belief in karma is something victims convince themselves of in order to feel better. Of course, sometimes random justice happens, but as another poster stated, these people are often very charismatic and land on their feet quite well. I am still angry, bitter and full of hate. I know it's hurting me and not him, but I've not been able to stop it. I don't want him to die. I want him to suffer a massive stroke that leaves his mental faculties intact but completely debilitates his body. I want him to become a quadraplegic and live for a very long time, forcing his mistress/now-wife to be stuck with him for the next 25 years. That would be karma.

Get thee to a therapist. You are wasting your life.

Therapy can't fix this. I've been there, I know my life is being wasted. He robbed me of my financial security(I'm the one who had the money) and my social circle. He has only gained from being married to me and now I am left with the stigma of being twice divorced. On the last night of our marriage, there was physical contact that led to some facial disfigurement which I cannot afford to get fixed. He really didn't mean for it to happen, but it did. There is now probably a very limited pool of dating options for me now matter how happy or confident I would be. I am being dragged through the courts more than 2 years after the default divorce was finalized. Him claiming he never got the papers because now he is being garnished. The gift that keeps on giving. So, yeah, quadriplegic seems a great option for him.

Anonymous wrote:I was oddly surprised when it hit my ex. He got married to the woman he dated after me and she cheated repeatedly, to the point they had to do a paternity test to see if he was the father of their child.

But that’s the only time I’ve seen it. And he seems happily married now to another woman. So maybe it was temporary karma.

Was the kid his?

Anonymous wrote:The belief in karma is something victims convince themselves of in order to feel better. Of course, sometimes random justice happens, but as another poster stated, these people are often very charismatic and land on their feet quite well. I am still angry, bitter and full of hate. I know it's hurting me and not him, but I've not been able to stop it. I don't want him to die. I want him to suffer a massive stroke that leaves his mental faculties intact but completely debilitates his body. I want him to become a quadraplegic and live for a very long time, forcing his mistress/now-wife to be stuck with him for the next 25 years. That would be karma.

Well, damn. Here I was thinking more along the lines of job loss and maybe a little curbside living.

Anonymous wrote:The belief in karma is something victims convince themselves of in order to feel better. Of course, sometimes random justice happens, but as another poster stated, these people are often very charismatic and land on their feet quite well. I am still angry, bitter and full of hate. I know it's hurting me and not him, but I've not been able to stop it. I don't want him to die. I want him to suffer a massive stroke that leaves his mental faculties intact but completely debilitates his body. I want him to become a quadraplegic and live for a very long time, forcing his mistress/now-wife to be stuck with him for the next 25 years. That would be karma.

Get thee to a therapist. You are wasting your life.