Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are better reasons that the Kardashians are bad influences than being single moms.
Stop saying "spread their legs" what a gross term.
Well it describes gross women.
When you use that term, it says far more about you (and nothing good) than it does about the alleged leg-spreaders.
If you say so. You’re offended by the term not me. Maybe you lay there like a fish.
Um, no. You don’t get to claim that you’re being sex-positive in using the term. It has a long history of being misogynistic and shaming. You’re disingenuous and arguing in bad faith.
I’m not using it as anything but what it is; you spread your legs to have sex. Simple. I’m not claiming or hinting at being sex positive bc idc. I also don’t care if you view it as shaming or misogynistic. You’re offended by the term, I’m not. You want to read into bc maybe someone shamed you for spreading your legs. I really don’t care about you or your desire not to use the term. Your personal thoughts on the term are irrelevant and yours alone.
No on cares if it's technically correct. I don't like the term because I associate the phrase with church ladies who are using it in a judgy manner with intent to shame the woman (and as if she were always a willing participant). There are a million other phrases that aren't explicit one uses when they aren't shaming.
Welp, that’s your baggage. So as was previously said, your personal thoughts are irrelevant and yours alone. No one cares if your feelings are hurt by a term.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are better reasons that the Kardashians are bad influences than being single moms.
Stop saying "spread their legs" what a gross term.
Well it describes gross women.
When you use that term, it says far more about you (and nothing good) than it does about the alleged leg-spreaders.
If you say so. You’re offended by the term not me. Maybe you lay there like a fish.
Um, no. You don’t get to claim that you’re being sex-positive in using the term. It has a long history of being misogynistic and shaming. You’re disingenuous and arguing in bad faith.
I’m not using it as anything but what it is; you spread your legs to have sex. Simple. I’m not claiming or hinting at being sex positive bc idc. I also don’t care if you view it as shaming or misogynistic. You’re offended by the term, I’m not. You want to read into bc maybe someone shamed you for spreading your legs. I really don’t care about you or your desire not to use the term. Your personal thoughts on the term are irrelevant and yours alone.
No on cares if it's technically correct. I don't like the term because I associate the phrase with church ladies who are using it in a judgy manner with intent to shame the woman (and as if she were always a willing participant). There are a million other phrases that aren't explicit one uses when they aren't shaming.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No. Women get pregnant all the time and don’t marry so what.
It’s practically a subcultural norm in the AA community, and the Kardashians seem to have embraced AA hip hop and sports celebrity culture.
Seriously?! This is not just in the AA community. Let’s make a list of all the white single mothers in Hollywood. I’ll go first, Kate Hudson, who by the way has multiple baby daddies.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are better reasons that the Kardashians are bad influences than being single moms.
Stop saying "spread their legs" what a gross term.
Well it describes gross women.
When you use that term, it says far more about you (and nothing good) than it does about the alleged leg-spreaders.
If you say so. You’re offended by the term not me. Maybe you lay there like a fish.
Um, no. You don’t get to claim that you’re being sex-positive in using the term. It has a long history of being misogynistic and shaming. You’re disingenuous and arguing in bad faith.
I’m not using it as anything but what it is; you spread your legs to have sex. Simple. I’m not claiming or hinting at being sex positive bc idc. I also don’t care if you view it as shaming or misogynistic. You’re offended by the term, I’m not. You want to read into bc maybe someone shamed you for spreading your legs. I really don’t care about you or your desire not to use the term. Your personal thoughts on the term are irrelevant and yours alone.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No. Women get pregnant all the time and don’t marry so what.
It’s practically a subcultural norm in the AA community, and the Kardashians seem to have embraced AA hip hop and sports celebrity culture.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are better reasons that the Kardashians are bad influences than being single moms.
Stop saying "spread their legs" what a gross term.
Well it describes gross women.
When you use that term, it says far more about you (and nothing good) than it does about the alleged leg-spreaders.
If you say so. You’re offended by the term not me. Maybe you lay there like a fish.
Um, no. You don’t get to claim that you’re being sex-positive in using the term. It has a long history of being misogynistic and shaming. You’re disingenuous and arguing in bad faith.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No. Women get pregnant all the time and don’t marry so what.
It’s practically a subcultural norm in the AA community, and the Kardashians seem to have embraced AA hip hop and sports celebrity culture.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Oh look, a debate about the ethics of being a single mom is about to start.
I don't think being a single mom is wrong. I think starting out a child's life at a deficit deliberately and ESPECIALLY when these Kardashian-style women don't have an income to support their kids or their households is wrong.
For the record - I think shows like Teen Mom are also horrible influences.
I'm pretty sure they have incomes that are much higher than yours. Also, the dads play an equal part in this. They choose not to be present.
Great point. They didn’t just go to the local sperm bank and deliberately choose to be single moms. They were involved with someone and got pregnant by someone (someone who has an income to support their kids and their households) but their relationship didn’t pan out.
I think you'd be surprised.
Most of those influencer chicks are renters one boyfriend away from being kicked out of their digs. Remember when Jordyn Woods (Kylie Jenner's BFF) got kicked out of Kylie's house? Where did she go? She's been squatting in her parent's place and now has a new rental so far out in the hills.
The KARDASHIANS are rich because of their show and their momager's knowledge of contracts. Most influencers don't have a Kris at their backs.
So they can afford to be octomoms if they want.
What’s the problem?

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are better reasons that the Kardashians are bad influences than being single moms.
Stop saying "spread their legs" what a gross term.
Well it describes gross women.
When you use that term, it says far more about you (and nothing good) than it does about the alleged leg-spreaders.
If you say so. You’re offended by the term not me. Maybe you lay there like a fish.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Oh look, a debate about the ethics of being a single mom is about to start.
I don't think being a single mom is wrong. I think starting out a child's life at a deficit deliberately and ESPECIALLY when these Kardashian-style women don't have an income to support their kids or their households is wrong.
For the record - I think shows like Teen Mom are also horrible influences.
I'm pretty sure they have incomes that are much higher than yours. Also, the dads play an equal part in this. They choose not to be present.
Great point. They didn’t just go to the local sperm bank and deliberately choose to be single moms. They were involved with someone and got pregnant by someone (someone who has an income to support their kids and their households) but their relationship didn’t pan out.
I think you'd be surprised.
Most of those influencer chicks are renters one boyfriend away from being kicked out of their digs. Remember when Jordyn Woods (Kylie Jenner's BFF) got kicked out of Kylie's house? Where did she go? She's been squatting in her parent's place and now has a new rental so far out in the hills.
The KARDASHIANS are rich because of their show and their momager's knowledge of contracts. Most influencers don't have a Kris at their backs.